Nikki Catsouras Photos – Graphic accident scene photos of their 18-year old daughter Nikki were leaked by the California Highway Patrol, so the Catsouras family has filed a $20 million dollar lawsuit.

In a horrible example of how fast things spread on the Internet, thousands of sites posted the graphic photos showing a nearly decapitated Nikki Catsoukas still strapped in the wreckage of her father’s Porsche 911.

In its claim, the Catsouras family cites emotional distress, loss of earnings and loss of consortium and seeks punitive damages, said attorney Tyler D. Offenhauser of Bremer Whyte Brown & O’Meara in Newport Beach.
“These images were posted solely for their ’shock and awe’ value, without any consideration whatsoever for the feelings of the family,” Offenhauser said. The 911 calls also are circulating online, he said.
The Catsouras family found out about the crash photos a few days after Nikki’s funeral.
One of her cousins, Zoe, 19, got a text message on her cell phone.
When she opened it, she saw thumbnail images of the accident scene – one of Nikki shown slumped over and still strapped into the driver’s seat, most of her head and face missing – and threw her phone down in shock.
The Catsouras family at Nikki’s high school graduation:

Details of Nikki Catsouras car crash:
The night before she died, Nikki had gotten into an argument with her father about “typical teenager stuff,” Christos Catsouras said.
He disciplined her by taking away the keys to her car.
Nikki’s mother said her daughter wasn’t feeling well Oct. 31. She had a 3 p.m. appointment to see a doctor.
Christos Catsouras had lunch at home that day. He works five minutes away at a real estate office.
He recalled telling Nikki before he went back to the office that he loved her. She blew him a kiss and flashed him a peace sign.
After he left, Nikki walked to a key rack in the house and took the keys to her father’s $150,000 Porsche – which Nikki had never driven, her father said.
The keys were hanging where they always were, with all the others.
Lesli Catsouras heard the garage door open and the car leave and called her husband, who called 911. He immediately drove around looking for her.
Nikki had taken off down the Eastern (241) Toll Road in his black 911 Carrera.
As she tried to pass a car that was going about 70 mph, she clipped it and lost control of the Porsche, the CHP said.
The high-speed impact with a concrete tollbooth killed Nikki Catsouras instantly, nearly decapitating her in the process. Her face was ripped off and her skull torn open.
The graphic Nikki Catsouras photos of her horribly mutilated body hanging lifeless from the mangled wreckage were taken by a CHP officer and emailed to several people. From there they spread like wildfire.
Cruel, mindless idiots then started sending them to family members, taunting them and calling Nikki a “spoiled rich girl” who “deserved it.”
Nothing could be further from the truth…
And that’s the awful news about the Nikki Catsouras photos.
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November 16th, 2007 at 3:06 pm
More of the Nicole Catsouras accident pictures can be found here:
http://www.snopes.com/photos/accident/alton.asp
And no, these aren’t the gruesome ones.
They include multiple pictures of the wrecked cars – Nicole Catsouras clipped a Honda she was passing and lost control – and it bears grim evidence of just what happens when a car slams into a concrete building at 100mph…
December 5th, 2007 at 10:13 am
very sad!my prayers go out to the family
December 6th, 2007 at 11:46 am
Its so sad that this young girl was killed, she for sure could not drive, at 70mph. That speed is dangerous at any age.
And she should not have been driving the porsche 911. some young people think they do know how to drive a sports car, and find out the hard way they really do not.
And the CA, Highway patrol should have never posted any pictures of it at all.
December 6th, 2007 at 10:02 pm
These words are to the bereaved parents of that beautiful creature of God,Nicole Catsouras.It’s sad that you are being assailed by so many people who will do better to pray for you in these hard times.May the Lord Jesus be with you and comfort you and shield you and your remaining children.Have faith that He is a sin-forgiving Savior and is able to bring your deceased daughter back to life upon His second coming in the clouds of heaven.May His peace be with you.
December 7th, 2007 at 3:23 pm
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December 7th, 2007 at 7:44 pm
She is a very beautiful girl and it is a tradgety to see her life taken away.
All my prayers go out to Nicoles family.
December 7th, 2007 at 10:22 pm
Last year I and gotten an email of a horrible car accident and the pictures were so devestating to see. Earlier tonight I was watching 20/20 and there was a segment on about Nikki Catsouras and I immeditatly recognized the crash pictures, I feel horrible for the family and wish that I would have never gotten that email, the family should have the privacy they need and the CHP needs to be punished greatly. My heart goes out to the family and bless her soul.
December 7th, 2007 at 10:41 pm
I am so discusted by how evil some people can be.The Catsouras family suffered a terrible loss.Those who leaked these pics of the accident scene.You have no morals,ethics,sense of decency or respect.I doubt you feel any shame for your stupid choice to help get these pics circulated around the net.My condolences to the Catsouras family.I hope they get the justice they deserve.
December 7th, 2007 at 10:43 pm
I’ve not seen the pics….?
December 7th, 2007 at 10:58 pm
i saw it on 20/20 and i wanted to say sry people are so rude. the things they did, they had no reason 4. my friend just got into a car crash (thank god he survived) but i would die if i saw this pics in my email.
my prayers are really with ur family…
Love Linny
December 7th, 2007 at 11:10 pm
damn i feel sorry for her
December 7th, 2007 at 11:12 pm
My prayers go out to this family and i just have to say that when i seen this air on 20/20 it just sickened me to know that people get a kick out of other peoples pain!
My God keep you and your family safe from the cruel world!!!
December 7th, 2007 at 11:21 pm
I am so sorry for this family. She is a beautiful girl and I am sure she was a beautiful person. I have a child of my own now and I couldn’t ever think of the pain this family has had to survive! My prayers, thoughts, and wishes go out to all of them. I hope they live for the memories of this child they so tragically lost.
December 7th, 2007 at 11:42 pm
I just saw your story on 20/20…………….. been searching … because i hate to say……….. diff circumstances… slightly… but trying to reach my 17 year old daughter………….. i don’t know what to do. I don’t want to disrespect you or your family, but your story is VERY familiar to me. I am scared. I grieve for your family. Please forgive my searches for photo’s, as i am trying to save my daughter………. Lord, forgive me……….
December 7th, 2007 at 11:44 pm
GOB BLESS HER i just seen the 20/20 may her beautiful soul an heart R.I.P. an to her family MY HEART GOES OUT AN MY REGARUDS
December 7th, 2007 at 11:48 pm
So so sad. She was so beautiful. RIP Nikki.
JR
http://www.Ultimate-Anonymity.com
“Whats your PC telling others about you?”
December 7th, 2007 at 11:49 pm
im so sorry she did not deserve this ,not even her parents i have kids i would feel the same way
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December 7th, 2007 at 11:56 pm
WHAT A SHAME SHE IS A VERY BEAUTIFUL GIRL AND THE COP WHO LEAK THE PICS SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HIMSELF WHAT IF THAT WAS HIS DAUGHTER GOD BLESS THE FAMILY
December 8th, 2007 at 12:55 am
My heart breaks for this family. Being a parent I could not imagine the loss of a child. And then having it shoved into your face, no one should have to be put though that. I hope that the CHP pays for their wrong doing. Have some respect!!!!
December 8th, 2007 at 1:18 am
I saw this story on tv and cannot believe the hell that this family has gone through. The publics taunting and ridiculing has completely shocked me! How would they feel if it was done to them or their own families during such a trageic time? Do these people have children themselves? I cannot comprehend the humor these people feel in a life being lost. Who cares how you die because everyone will die. It could be tomorrow or years from now. NO one should be judged or made fun of for the way they die! Everyone makes mistakes and some mistakes may be your last. These people are creating a very bad charma that will come back on them in some way shape or form. As for the family, stay strong and you will have your justice in the end.
December 8th, 2007 at 1:33 am
I just saw the news story on 20/20. That pointed me here. Suddenly 100K hits on google and fire is stoked again. Explain to me how the 20/20 plea from the parents puts their daughter to rest? Are they kidding? Now they are gonna really see the onslaught, and their cause will be squarely opposed by all of the people they marginalized with their own brand of character assassination. This week we all witnessed what tweaky teenage boys will do in a Nebraska mall. Viral video of car crashed teenage girl is light weight antics, like every episode of Halloween, Friday 13, and Nightmare on Elm Street. Face it folks, if you don’t like what you see, then DON’T LOOK. But doing an Osmond Family plea for decency, although galvanizing for the distraught, only begs for that video to be revived just like the aforementioned horror sequels. So congrats 20/20, you’ve promoted the revival of “Faces of Death: Nikki Catsouras” Is there a publishing deal now or what?
December 8th, 2007 at 1:34 am
No words can ever justify such a tragedy! Hearts around the world are with the Catsouras family…..
December 8th, 2007 at 1:37 am
Physics trumps money and beauty.
Now money will try to hide the truth.
December 8th, 2007 at 1:48 am
She was DRUNK!!! A very convenient fact that her wealthy family has left out of their admittedly sad story. Her Dad immediately called 911 because (as he told the dispatcher) she “had been drinking all day.”
Not that it changes the debate about the pictures being leaked much…but it IS a relevant fact.
Those aren’t just pictures of an innocent little girl. They are a (graphic) reminder of the perils of drunk driving (and bad parenting that leads to a daughter drinking at home all day…as long as he doesn’t take out the Porsche).
The story is still a sad story…but everyone should know the REAL and full story.
Her parents haven’t wanted the tapes of their 911 call released because that little fact tidbit is mentioned by the dad himself.
December 8th, 2007 at 1:49 am
http://www.dattaway.us/crash/
Has a slideshow set up with ALL of the photos.
December 8th, 2007 at 2:45 am
My heart goes out to the Catsouras family. Even moreso because of some unfeeling people who feel the need to publish everything. NO one has the right to cash in on this family’s tragedy. What is with this world today? Is there no morals left? Why is it that people need to see every detail? Just hearing the headline is more than enough. I think all the people of the internet world should stand behind this family in getting every picture taken OFF the web!
December 8th, 2007 at 2:59 am
i wonder what the people in the honda had to say about this. when they ran over to her car and saw her head all smushed in. that’s trauma. i would have sued the family for that distress
December 8th, 2007 at 3:01 am
why was she drinking alone?
December 8th, 2007 at 3:02 am
check out the pics and get off this stupid story. oh they couldnt pay me enough to scrape up brains off of walls and shit
December 8th, 2007 at 3:03 am
wow that family has good genes. i wish they would make a sexy boy. i bet he’d have a big tool
December 8th, 2007 at 3:18 am
I saw this story on tv tonight. Very sad… based on her photos with her family alone, she seemed like such a warm girl. She was very pretty. My prayers are with her family. sigh.
December 8th, 2007 at 8:17 am
For the family: She was (and still is) a beautiful girl. I am very sad for your loss and all the problems with the pictures. It is such a tragedy that words can’t adequately express the situation. I will pray for all of you.
December 8th, 2007 at 9:13 am
i really feel bad for nikki’s family, and i understand the feeling of someone dieing and you having to keep reading and seeing about it. it is very depressing, and its WRONG. i really wish her family hope to get thru this and she was a beautiful girl who did not deserve to die.
December 8th, 2007 at 10:00 am
We give out a drivers licenses with only a steering test and not a DRIVING test. Untill we take driving and drivers training seriously this will continue to happen over and over
December 8th, 2007 at 10:16 am
Oh my gosh….i saw this depressing article on 20/20 and my heart went out to this family, this girl was so beautiful and the ending was too tragic to bear…….I hope these sick mided losers get there share of justice and for the family………God bless you…you never deserved this neither did Nikki, so R.I.P. Nikki and god bless all of her loved ones who are going through misery right now….
R.I.P. Nikki Catsouras
December 8th, 2007 at 10:44 am
While it is certainly tragic that Nikki’s life was ended, it does need to be noted that she had no business driving 100mph, and with all due respect, she’s lucky that she didn’t kill or seriously injure anyone else. She didn’t deserve to be maimed and killed like she was- no one deserves that- but people need to realize that it was her own selfish, immature, and highly irresponsible choices that ultimately led to death and destruction.
It makes me sick to my stomach to think that people have maliciously sent the photos to her family, but I do think that they would possibly be a good resource in say, a driving education class to warn others of the dangers of reckless and irresponsible driving. I’ve seen the photos, and they have seriously made me realize just how much I take things like driving for granted, and how what happened to Nikki is avoidable.
December 8th, 2007 at 11:40 am
TOM JONES-
who the HELL are you to say that she was drunk? ARE YOU CLOSE PERSONAL FRIENDS WITH THE FAMILY? I DONT THINK SO. NO WHERE DOES IT SAY THAT SHE WAS DRUNK..and MULTIPLE parts of this article are INCORRECT, especially the part of the exaggerated $150,000 DADS PORSCHE CARRERA. ok last time i checked those cost ONLY 80K. this story was blown WAY out of proportion and so many rumors have been started by stupid, uneducated, foolish losers who are simply jealous of the family’s economic standings, but in reality that DOES NOT MATTER. could you imagine losing a child in that manner? and having it publicized all over the internet? this is a NIGHTMARE for the family and i pray that their grief will end. and let me tell ya, karma is a b*tch and all these haters will get their turn one day.
REST IN PEACE NICOLE
December 8th, 2007 at 12:00 pm
It’s disgusting that people think it’s entertaining to post the gruesome pictures of this girl on the web and leave such horrific comments for her family to see
I’m not referring to this particular websites but I saw on 20/20 that this was happening.
That girl was gorgeous and young and the story of her death is heartbreaking and it’s sick that people did that to her family.
People need to think about what they would do if that happened to them before they start posting s*** like this to gain a minuscule amount of recognition.
December 8th, 2007 at 12:03 pm
gorgeous girl.. i saw the special on 20/20 and I feel horrible for the parents. r.i.p nikki
December 8th, 2007 at 12:07 pm
OH and for those you who are lame and sick enough to post on here about how “the family had good genes so they should make a sexy boy” and that “her parents are bad parents because they let her drink and take the porches out” and other disgusting comments like that
THAT’S NOT WHAT THE PROBLEM IS
the problem is the creeps that post the pictures
families make mistakes
that DOES NOT MEAN that they should have to deal with the death of a child
and then deal with assholes that use the government to justify there own sick forms of entertainment.
this world is going to shit
people need to think
December 8th, 2007 at 12:15 pm
My prayers go out to the Catsouras Family.
December 8th, 2007 at 12:19 pm
I think The people who put these pictures on the web are disgusting and should be ashamed. She was a young girl that tragically had her life taken from her. I watched 20/20 and the sick twisted individuals that post mean or nasty comments and pictures should only feel the pain Nikki’s poor family felt.
December 8th, 2007 at 12:35 pm
I also watched that 20/20 show on Nikki. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Catsouras family. I couldn’t imagine losing my daughter and then having to endure all of the cruel things floating around the internet about her and her death. People have said some really mean things about her. It’s sad that in todays world nobody has any compassion or sympathy for situations such as this. It doesn’t matter if she was drinking or not, it doesn’t matter if she was speeding or not. She is still a human being. I think that anybody that has said anything negative about this young lady is a heartless soulless individual. You should be ashamed of yourselves. Let’s just hope that nothing like that ever happens to you and someone you love. It’s a sad sad world
December 8th, 2007 at 12:36 pm
I watched 20/20 last night and I feel sorry for the parents of that girl. You know how teenagers are with their high adrenaline,them not thinking first and awareness BUT those CHP officers had NO RIGHT to mail those pictures of Nikki to their friends and family!!!!! They have no shame and needs to be terminated from their JOB!!!!!! They are cold, vicious and no heart at all! That means they don’t take their job seriously by protecting the people that they’re suppose to be protecting, instead they think its funny to violate other people’s lives because it not their own fleshen blood!!! I pray that the Catsouras family will ultimately win justice and all the punitive, mentally damages from the CHP and the STATE!!!!!
December 8th, 2007 at 1:22 pm
FUCK THE CHP!
They need to be shot!
December 8th, 2007 at 2:17 pm
The story reminds me of ‘Willie Wonka & the Chocolate Factory.’ A spoiled girl with bad parenting, ie. Veruca Salt or any of the others, ends up causing her own demise with her own bad behavior.
The parents should re-run the movie and learn their lesson from Roald Dahl.
“What do you get when you kid is a brat…”
December 8th, 2007 at 2:35 pm
I feel very sorry for the family and their loss. I don’t know if it can be confirmed that she was drinking. Even with out knowing that to be a fact I feel the parents were irresponsible by letting her even have access to the keys to the Porche. Even if she had never taken the car before and the keys were always kept in the same place, the father had punished her by taking away her car the night before. Had he taken the keys with him, their daughter would still be alive. The average American family could not afford the insurance on a Porshe, let alone have one as an extra vehicle just sitting in the garage. It was a horrible accident, but giving her access to the keys, is like giving a child a loaded gun…thank God she only hurt herself and didn’t hurt any innocents. I hope this tragic accident leads more parents (including hers) to be more responsible.
December 8th, 2007 at 3:00 pm
I seen this story lastnight while watching 20/20, It brought me back to March 27,1999 when my cousin Micheal and his girlfriend Tamera were both killed in an automobile accident, although their story is alot different from this one, i can understand what her family is going through.But i could only image what it must feel like to have it posted all over the net, and then sent to you via e-mail. I would be outraged to say the least,horrified would be my next word. After Micheal was killed i went to the truck and was cleaning it out when i found things no one should ever have to find. i had nightmares for months, I’m 29 years old and those memories are always with me, not really the way you want to remember your loved ones. Those parents should have never seen those gruesome pictures, it will stay in there minds forever. My heart goes out to this family, I’m so sorry for your loss. May god heal your pain! And i hope all you sick ass people whom have been apart of these photo’s being spread all over the internet,i hope you never have to bury a child or a sibling,father or mother. i bet money you wouldn’t want their photo’s all over the internet. “Sick Fuck’s”
December 8th, 2007 at 3:00 pm
Such a beautiful girl…
I can not believe that there are people in this world that are so cruel…to harrass that poor family. How do they sleep at night?
My heart goes out to the family and friends of this young lady…and shame on those who feel anything other than sympathy over this tragic situation.
December 8th, 2007 at 3:42 pm
I WAS WATCHING 20/20 YESTERDAY. I SAW THE STORY. THAT WAS A SAD STORY. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP. STAY STRONG FOR NIKKI.FOR THE PEOPLE THAT HAD THOSE DISRESPECTING THINGS TO SAY.THAT PRETTY SAD. IT WOULDN’T BEEN SO FUNNY IF IT WAS SOMEONE IN YOUR FAMILY.HOW COULD YOU LIVE WITH YOURSELF.
December 8th, 2007 at 4:40 pm
So sad for Nikki’s family & the family of the victim in the Honda. RIP.
Let this be a lesson for parents & their children. I don’t care how responsible your kids are, NEVER leaver Porsche keys lying around. An 18 year old knows better than to drive 100mph. What the hell was she thinking? I’m glad my child wasn’t on the road with her that day.
Reminds me of Hulk Hogan’s son, except he lived.
I will go hug my children now.
December 8th, 2007 at 5:57 pm
To Nikki’s family, – I watched the 20/20 TV show last night. I want to tell you that the bad things we do always come back to us. It may takes months , years even decades. But I know that this is true. Anyone who exploited the death of your daughter will eventually feel the same pain that they inflicted on your family. Believe me. There is a Bible verse that proves this: Galatians 6:7
Even if these people aren’t believers….they will reap what they’ve sown. I pray for your family and your daughter. I hope you get comfort in knowing that she is being loved and cared for by the Lord Jesus Christ. She is at peace. God bless.
December 8th, 2007 at 7:29 pm
HONESTLY.
where do you heartless people get off saying dumb
shit like this about someone that died? it’s not funny,
she didn’t deserve it, she was a good kid. Her family
is hurting from this so why the fuck would any of you
go off saying hurtful things….
you aren’t impressing anyone.
My prayers go out to the Catsouras family.
May Nikki rest in peace.
December 8th, 2007 at 7:51 pm
I saw this story on 20/20 last night, my thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I don’t understand what kind of sick people would put these up on the internet, I just don’t understand.
December 8th, 2007 at 8:10 pm
The entire pack of Uncensored Pics:
http://fileclouds.com/cars/porsche_911_crash/
December 8th, 2007 at 8:18 pm
may all of you forgive those fallowing words,but there no other way i see to describe the highway patrol.
those idiots cock suker low life who never had authority in there sand square box think they can outlaw the justice and
the life of a young one. that fuckin outrage me when the law
will be law and not some dip chit and we all know. they will get what they deserve soon or later, karma is a bitch! for those who do to hurt. i’m truly sorry of this language i’m using. i do wish to the whole family my very best and all my love! may Nikki rest in peace!
December 8th, 2007 at 9:55 pm
OMG…….my prayers go out to the family…a beautiful women tooken to young.
December 8th, 2007 at 10:46 pm
To every one arguing about the freedoms, the photos, to parent’s rights etc. As an older than Nikki, less than 40 person, someone that has driven on public roads topping the speeds that were reported, this is in fact something that will affect me and my judgment as to driving at those speeds. Is it fair that the parent’s have to endure the photos being out there, no. Should they seek retribution for them being out there, yes. Should the take the death of their daughter and make something good come from it so other parents do not have to go through the pain they have, YES. Do good with the negative, you’re signed up as an organ donor.. should your family fight to have your body remain whole? Make good come from this..
December 8th, 2007 at 11:13 pm
Its amazing to me how some people are so immature, but yet so grown. I am 17 years only and I saw the story last night on 20/20 about Nikki, she was a beautiful girl who made a mistake and here family has already suffered enough and shouldn’t have to suffer any more because of the STUPID people! How are photos realeased to the public before they are to your own family? I just don’t get it, something has to be done to stop this!
December 9th, 2007 at 3:50 am
I was so shocked by the fact that such tragic images of a accident victim can be used by the CHP, for any reason, without consent from the surviving family! This is an outrage to say the least!! I feel so sad for the family and their loss! A tragedy like this should be morned by the family and closed friends. The images used to portray this young girls life should be those images that show her spirit & zest for life. Shame on the CHP!!!
December 9th, 2007 at 9:29 am
Pretty sad indeed. But still would like to see those pictures. Where are they? Huh?
JT
http://www.Ultimate-Anonymity.com
“Online PRivacy & Anonymity Tools”
December 9th, 2007 at 2:13 pm
It is sickning to see pictures like this posted throughout the internet! number one, grow up and get some common sense and take these off! The Catsouras family has suffered enough can’t anyone care anymore or sympathize? I bet if anyone who posts these picturs up lost someone they love and people posted pictures up, i bet they would hate it too. Has the world lost its love? or common sense for that matter? and for the police. you should have your badges removed and there should be a law for cameras on any accident sites. plus there should be a law for the internet sites who have these pictures posted. Also for the ones who look at the pictures. poke fun at them or send them to the family are twisted and obviously cold hearted! If anyone cares they would remove these pictures.
December 9th, 2007 at 5:41 pm
I SAW 20/20 AND MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY..SUCH A BEAUTIFUL GIRL!! NOW SHE IS IN HEAVEN WATCHING OVER HER FAMILY!! RIP NOW NIKKI, YOU ARE NOW IN UNDER THE WINGS OF GOD’S ANGELS!
December 9th, 2007 at 6:15 pm
People are not getting the point of the 20/20 interview. It’s not the point of her driving drunk or driving at all. These pics do not deter kids or adults from driving drunk. These pics are out here for the wow factor, which is not appropriate. I feel sorry for the families of the people on this site, who stated that these pics are O.K. and almost deserved for Nikki’s behavior or for her family doing an interview. I guess you wouldn’t mind your family member being posted in such a why.
December 9th, 2007 at 7:18 pm
i also saw this on 20/20the other night. i just wanted to say im sorry to hear that something like this happen first off and even more sorry that it was exploited. that was a cruel act and i pray your family finds peace and justice in the matter
December 9th, 2007 at 7:35 pm
so sorry to hear about your daughter. I don’t know why people do such terrible things.
December 9th, 2007 at 10:59 pm
dam that sucks R.I.P. NIKKI
December 10th, 2007 at 12:07 am
In July 2006 I was convicted of dui. Since then, my life has changed drastically. Since I was a social drinker, I didn’t realize I had too much until it was too late. I totaled my new car and hit another car, hurting the passenger. I have never felt such shame or humility as I had when I faced her family in court. It took me over a year to not cry when I talk about that day. But until my last day on earth I will continue to tell my story, praying that one person will learn from my mistake. I will carry the burden of my actions on my shoulders for life and I deserve it. I will never hide behind what I’ve done because even though that was one of the worst days of my life, no one died. And for that, I know that I am blessed. I am no longer a social drinker; my choice now being natural spring water in a bottle. But I will continue to live with my humility by talking about what I’ve done and praying that I may save someone’s life when they remember what I said. I pray for the Catsouras family and I hope they will realize that Nikki is in a better world in which we live. If they believe in the Lord Almighty, they will see her again. And she’ll be even more beautiful than they ever remembered her. God Bless.
December 10th, 2007 at 12:08 am
Because hiring a firm to remove the pics, suing the CHP, and going on 20/20 is going to make the pictures suddenly disappear. No. All it does is make people more interested in it. If they would’ve ignored it, people would have forgotten about it fairly quickly. I don’t care if the family is upset or hurt. They’re dumbasses. No one deserves to lose a child like that, but how they’re handling the situation now is wrong. Winning millions of dollars in a lawsuit isn’t going to bring their daughter back or honor her memory. Litigation isn’t the answer to everything, and it especially makes them look bad since they were so well off in the first place. Typical people who fill emotional voids with material possessions. The CHP shouldn’t have leaked those pics, but they’re out now. So be it. Let people see them. Maybe it will teach others not to be so stupid & reckless.
December 10th, 2007 at 12:47 am
i saw the report on 20/20 about this girl and her family and it is so terrible what these monsters did to her memory and her family… she was a beautiful girl, and i feel so bad for her family. im sure she never did anything so bad she should be trated like that after death.. and her family doesnt deserve that either
December 10th, 2007 at 5:24 pm
I saw the story of Nikki on 20/20. I dont think an 18 yr old should have access to alcohol, if she were drunk when she had the accident. This is a sad story and as a mother I feel for her family and friends. She was a beautiful young girl with her whole life ahead of her and in one silly action she took that all away.
I have seen the terrible images from the scene and I feel the CHP and anyone else responsible for leaking out the pictures, should be punished. Though I do feel these are good tolls for younger drivers that speed kills.
Her family are in my thoughts and prayers.
December 10th, 2007 at 8:00 pm
Let the family grieve in peace. My heart goes out to them
Her family are in my prayers
December 10th, 2007 at 9:36 pm
i was watching 20/20 last night and they said nikki had brought a cigarette in the house and that it was against house rules.Im so sorry nikki got mad at her father and took his car and took her own life just a drive down the road.She should have listened to her father but i guess no one listens to anybody.Bless her heart and familys heart and all they have gone through.All my prayers will go to them.Bless you Catsouras family
December 11th, 2007 at 1:14 am
But her life “was not taken from her.” She took it herself…as others have noted.
Like I said in my previous post…it does NOT change the issue about the release of the pictures. That is still obviously a concerning thing.
BUT…like it or not (and it is ok for those who don’t), there is a story here beyond an innocent girl who had her life “taken” from her. She made some VERY poor choices that led to her death. She and she alone was responsible for it. The story wasn’t about her parents suing because the car was faulty, or the roads weren’t properly maintained, or the toll facility was dangerously located, or another driver was reckless, or anything else. The story, which I remind you her parents VOLUNTARILY told on NATIONAL TELEVISION (knowing full well it would spark interest, debate, etc. from both sides), is about pictures. And them pointing the finger at who they want to blame for the pictures. And talking about how their lives have been made harder because of the pictures.
NOBODY can cry foul when there are others who are now interested in the pictures! And her parents are 100% responsible for the press/publicity/interest and even the new comments that are coming their way. NOBODY forced them on to 20/20. Nobody.
Nikki deserves to rest in peace. Agreed. But her parents brought this all back up. And the pictures aren’t the only story out there. You can’t put blinders on people, telling them to only talk about the picture issue and ignore that this girl made some terrible, tragic, deadly decisions that resulted in her own death. Nobody took her life. She caused her own death. Sad. Very sad. Tragically sad. But true.
December 11th, 2007 at 3:08 am
This is very very sad.. I just want to say how sorry i am for your loss.!I just busted into tears when i first saw the news..To you guys who make some weak , childish,unneccessary comments, please don’t leave a comment..It’s very disrespecting and rude! This is a tragic story, it’s not funny nor a story to make fun of…Just think as if one of your family members died how would it really feel other people said the things you guys are saying. I just can’t believe you guys don’t have respect and sad feelings……My prayers go out with the family .im soo sorry
r.i.p Nikki
Tiki
December 11th, 2007 at 3:37 am
Its very sad that they lost their child, and anytime that photos are abused its sad. They shouldnt be used for pleasure, but for a purpose. however, this is another example not to be forgotten of a delinquent, not to be forgotten. There images that show what happens when you dont follow the law. My wife lisa was hit and killed by two joyriders, 17 and 18, in mechanicsville,va when 2 kids going 100 miles and hour broadsided her and killed her and my best friend. This girl STOLE her fathers car after her father took hers away, sped off in a sports car, and at speeds of 100 miles an hour (or more) ((estimated)) she hit another person not who was not speeding, and could have killed countless other people when she jumped the median into oncoming traffic. Its very sad oyung kids have to keep pushing limits, because no one ever mentions any further the other person she hit and the tragedy it caused there life. Again, im sorry they were tormented, but they should let the pictures stay up to demonstrate to people the importance of following speed limits, especially to the young and inexperienced who often lose there life, but just as often take innocent others with them.
December 11th, 2007 at 3:51 am
You know what no one has mentioned? Suppose she had front-ended SOMEONE ELSE why she was recklessly driving her Porsche? You might be seeing pictures today of someone other than Nikki Catsouras. I don’t condone leaking the photographs, but people shouldn’t forget how horribly irresponsible that girl was, and how much worse the accident could have been.
December 11th, 2007 at 4:47 am
This happened to a friend http://www.dallasnews.com/video/?z=y&nvid=193255
December 11th, 2007 at 4:53 am
http://www.dallasnews.com/video/?z=y&nvid=193255
December 11th, 2007 at 5:07 am
What will it be like in 10 years after we are all not only numb to gore and violence but bored as well.
December 11th, 2007 at 5:18 am
Why does everybody always say it’s a shame because she was such a BEAUTIFUL girl? It’s obvious that Nikki was beautiful, but her death would be just as sad even if she was horribly ugly. And, Tom Jones, I don’t understand why you bothered posting. Her grieving family has the right to deal with their tragedy however they want and blame whoever they want.
Everybody posting here has made poor choices at one time or another. Have you ever ran a red light or stop sign? Have you ever surpassed the speed limit? It’s true that nobody took her life, but she did not CAUSE her own death. It just happened. And like you said yourself, the story is about the PICTURES. CHP and the a**holes that sent the pictures to the family may not be responsible for her death, but they ARE responsible for the pictures.
You don’t think it made it harder on Nikki’s parents and her cousin to see those pictures and to have them floating around where they could be seen by her younger sisters? I lost my favorite cousin in a four-wheeler accident back in February. Obviously my family was devastated, but it would have made it that much worse if she had been mutilated in some way and we had seen pictures that some evil person had sent.
All the officers involved should be fired and pay some amount of the lawsuit out of their own pocket. And if anybody deserves the death penalty for their actions, it’s the monsters that sent those pictures to the family and made the “spoiled rich kid” comments.
December 11th, 2007 at 10:55 am
I just want to say that it doesn’t matter what caused the accident. It doesn’t matter if the girl had been drinking or not. It doesn’t matter if she was a spoiled rich kid. How do you know if she didn’t follow every direction and was the best behaved and most well mannered child ever. Honestly I don’t believe that it is any of anyone else’s business. This beautiful girl is dead and a life is torn apart. A family has lost an important piece of their hearts and lives. I have not seen any pics more then of the car but I believe that too is wrong. It is not ok to send these pictures out and then to send them to her family that’s just wrong. I only hope that this family can get past this horrible lost and this even more devistation of a cruel issue. I don’t know who out there has children but if my child passed away it wouldn’t change the lost if they were spoiled or not. It’s the loss of a child and no one is able to speak on that unless they have been through it themselves. Cause you couldn’t understand a loss like that.
December 11th, 2007 at 2:28 pm
Im 29, and I know that when I was 18,19,20 I was invincible, untouchable and very stupid! At that age there simply are no foreseeable consequences for any action! Our parents always told us to go slow, take it easy, I love you and its a kiss then good-bye. See you later. Call you when I get there.
Its truly tragic that this ended up the way that it did. A beautiful young girl with the world at her finger tips. She didn’t even know what the world had to offer her. Who doesn’t dissagree with their parents when they are 18? She was upset angry and unfortunatly paid the ultimate price to vent!
Even more tragic is the fact that some irresponcible, S.O.B. cop was there with a camera. Like Nikki on that tragic day, he/she cop wasn’t thinking about consequenses when they uploaded and emailed those pictures out! What do you think was going to happen? With youtube and email things get around fast!! Moron! Someone should put them on desk duty!
With this lawsuit I do think that someone needs to be held accountable for putting those horrificly graffic images out there. As for those taunting and emailing the photos to the family, they should be hung! Is there any way anyone can try to imagine what those parents are going through? Any way to comprehend their loss and to feel their sickening pain, fear and guilt? NO!
Our kids are born and our lives are changed forever. We see their future as endless and want only the very best for them, at any age, always. When this family’s nightmare happened it should not have become a matter of public viewing!!
December 12th, 2007 at 8:56 am
im from lubbock texas and i seen the pictures of your daughter and yes its terrible to see that.it goes to show you that people in general can do what ever they want because no one is seeing who really gets hurt from the after affects.yes i say do you do what ever it takes to prove your point and this world needs to know its not about the money its paying for how life was treated after death. may god bless your families and keep on living.
December 12th, 2007 at 2:26 pm
My prayers are with this family right now. No one should have to lose a child, especially like that. In my own corner of the world our community lost 3 cheerleaders about a week an a half ago. We are still dealing with that grief. It was a deer that ran out in front of a Malibu that had 7 girls crammed into it. 2 where ejected and the other was still in the car. Only the driver had her seatbelt on and she had very minor injuries but has a lifetime to deal with the death of her 3 very close friends. I say all of that to say this, I saw the pictures of Nikki, I was at the accident of the other girls, I am a first responder and a student of forensics. I see this kind of thing
WAY too much. It breaks my heart everytime and after every shift I want to go home and hug my own kids very tight.
Parents, love your children. Thank God for every minute that you have with them. It is all borrowed time, God only loans them to us.
Nikki’s family I hope that God provides your family some comfort this Christmas. The thoughts and prayers of a Nation, most of us knew nothing of you until 20/20, are with you. Peace to you and your daughter
December 12th, 2007 at 6:16 pm
To whoever may read this some of o=you may think this as a joke , well its not. All the ones who do are immature can’t you see this accident had affected many people. Also the people who had leaked the photos of her accident should be sued. i give my heart to the Catsouras family.
December 12th, 2007 at 8:06 pm
Our hearts go out to the family of Nikki. May she rest in eternal peace.
December 12th, 2007 at 10:02 pm
Bill, you are whining, knock it off. Her family has the right to blame whoever they want? OK, then blame Nikki. She drank all day at home. She took the car. She endangered the driver of the Honda she clipped. She brought about her own death. Blame themselves for failing as parents to instill morality, decency, respect for elders, and common sense in their daughter. It is cold, callous, heartless, yes. But it is also true.
That her family is suing for damages due to the release of the photos shows how hollow and materialistic they are. The driver of the Honda should sue them, for being lousy parents. I am 28, and when I lived at home, if I took the keys to the car, my Dad would have beaten me like a government mule, and deservedly so. Nikki STOLE the car (it was not her property, she did not have permission) while intoxiated (underage drinking is a misdemeanor), and drove (DUI/DWI depending on state) a stolen vehicle while under the influence. That is 3 strikes.
She may have been young, may have been pretty, but she was NOT an innocent victim of anything other than her own immaturity. And YES, I have run red lights, I have surpassed the speed limit. The difference? I was not in a stolen car and drunk at the time.
You say she didn’t cause her death, it just happened. That is a complete load of bovine excrement. Please, grow up and learn about ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS AND CHOICES. Too many people are coddled these days into thinking nothing is their fault. It is sad that she lost her life, and her family is hurting. It was STUPID that she drank all day at home, and took the car. Her parents are STUPID for leaving the keys where she could swipe them.
And your clamoring for the death penalty for the reprobates who spread the photos shows you to be someone who knows nothing about the rule of law. Once those photos made it online, they are public domain. Sick as that is, there is little that can be done to remove them wholly from the net.
Tom Jones, I couldn’t agree with you more! Her parents brought even more attention to her stupid decision. And by not releasing the 911 call, proves they have something to hide (i.e. their daughter was drunk) and wish to present themselves as innocent victims.
December 13th, 2007 at 12:12 am
The CHP F^@$ed up and they are liable for the surviving family’s emotional pain caused by their actions, drunk girl or not. Stupid people say stupid stuff due to their lack of experience in certain situations and this fits the bill. On the bright side it looks like Nikki had sisters and friends that will have the opportunity to not follow in their loved one’s traggic foot-steps by learning something from all this.
Anyway this whole thing is not helping me make any Christmas money so best of wishes to the family and good luck.
December 13th, 2007 at 2:10 am
Looks like she pissed in her pants too. Must’ve been one scary ride for her until impact.
December 13th, 2007 at 7:10 pm
Drinking or not, careless or not, ugly or beautiful , it was a horrible way to die and a horrible way to lose a child, sister, friend.
I do not think, however, that we need laws regulating the Internet because of this. We don’t need the government (which is supposed to be us, the people) to protect us from ourselves. If you do not want to see the gruesome photos (and they are) then don’t look at them. You have that CHOICE.
I do not think that the family should get $20 million from tax payers of California for their pain and suffering either. The tax payers had nothing to do with this accident or the distribution of the photos. The CHP officers who were reponsible should be repremanded for their actions, possibly fired. Suing tax payers is going to solve nothing. Holding those in the CHP responsible will.
Airing the story on 20/20 does nothing to further their phlight either. It just made millions of more people aware of those photos. I think that was a very bad decision on the families part if they truly want to move away from this and begin to heal.
My condolences to the family and friends of this young women. I wish that you all did not have to go through what you have. I hope you find the peace you are looking for.
December 14th, 2007 at 11:42 am
I am truly saddened by this tragic event. I watched 20/20 and could not believe what this family has went through. It just shows how sick people really are when it comes to death at someone else’s expense. It would totally be different if the shoe was on the other foot. It just amazes me how people can be so cruel. I truly believe that the law needs to step up and punish people for their crimes. I just want the family to know that they are in my prayers.
December 14th, 2007 at 4:25 pm
While the Nikki Catsouras case seems outrageous and unique, it isn’t. Hundreds of cases of egregious and heinous acts go on every day with the same excuses out of our lawmakers.
One such other case….The case of Megan Meier, is a classic example of disgusting, hateful activity against innocent victims, while our lawmakers excuse themselves from enacting laws to prevent this.
The excuse lawmakers use to let themselves off the hook stem from the growth of the Internet and how fast it’s changing. This is a sham.
Chat rooms, message boards, instant messengers and email have been in existence for far over a decade now. While the software used to transmit messages changes slightly, the basic essence of using the Internet to send a message is largely the same. Is a decade or two long enough to establish some basic decency laws in regards to Internet usage?
I’ve posted the Nikki Catsouras story along with many details about the Megan Meier case so the inactivity out of our lawmakers towards these types of cases can be clearly seen.
Those who are interested in learning about cases like Megan’s and Nikki’s case are encouraged to drop by and comment on them. I have a couple of polls set up as well. Danny Vice would like to hear your point of view.
Public awareness of the problem and discussions about possible solutions are the best way to pressure elected officials into action instead of excuse making.
I invite you to come by and share your opinion.
Danny Vice
http://weeklyvice.blogspot.com
December 14th, 2007 at 5:17 pm
Hundreds of cases of egregious and heinous acts go on every day with the same excuses out of our lawmakers.
One such other case….The case of Megan Meier, is a classic example of disgusting, hateful activity against innocent victims, while our lawmakers excuse themselves from enacting laws to prevent this.
The excuse lawmakers use to let themselves off the hook stem from the growth of the Internet and how fast it’s changing. This is a sham.
Chat rooms, message boards, instant messengers and email have been in existence for far over a decade now. While the software used to transmit messages changes slightly, the basic essence of using the Internet to send a message is largely the same. Is a decade or two long enough to establish some basic decency laws in regards to Internet usage?
I’ve posted the Nikki Catsouras story along with many details about the Megan Meier case so the inactivity out of our lawmakers towards these types of cases can be clearly seen.
Those who are interested in learning about cases like Megan’s and Nikki’s case are encouraged to drop by and comment on them. I have a couple of polls set up as well. Danny Vice would like to hear your point of view.
Public awareness of the problem and discussions about possible solutions are the best way to pressure elected officials into action instead of excuse making.
I invite you to come by and share your opinion.
Danny Vice
http://weeklyvice.blogspot.com
December 14th, 2007 at 5:39 pm
I was in school and somehow my teacher got pics og Nikki S. and they were the bad ones. I couln’t believe this big dispectful picture i saw. Even though i didn’t know N.S. i just want to remember as she was in the picture of her family. Nice, happy Nikki. i so srry for the famliy and for the people who would put up such things. I think it wasn’t Nikki’s time but by her death she has helped other teens just like me see how in a second we could mess up and lose our whole futures. May the dead rest their sleepy heads upon god’s gentle palms.
December 14th, 2007 at 9:54 pm
We are so sorry about Nikki’s death. It was so tragic, we are glad that she died instantly so she didn’t need to feel any pain. The people who are sending those emails have no feelings for others. To the Catsouras family, we send our sympathies about your daughter, I’m sure she was a great person.
December 14th, 2007 at 11:28 pm
I don’t understand what the big deal is… I bet most of you looked at the pictures. It sucks that she dies, but it’s what happens when Daddy buys you a car that’s way faster than any human being would ever need to drive and you drive it like an idiot. Now we all get to be amused and disgusted by the results. Humans thrive on this kind of drama and can’t look away when the pictures ARE leaked all over the internet. Stop with the pity party charade.
December 21st, 2007 at 12:19 pm
Lord, please be with this family.
December 30th, 2007 at 10:15 pm
My Prayres go out to Nikki. What a sad story… why do the good always have to die young?? Nikki was a young beatiful girll! I wish a better year for the family!! SOrry
December 31st, 2007 at 1:43 am
I really do feel for Nicole Catsouras’ family. And for all you idiots saying she was drunk…. she WAS NOT DRUNK! She simply got caught sneaking a cigarette, which was against her parents rules and so her dad took her car keys away as punishment. And yes, she did steal her dad’s Porsche keys but it is not her parents fault! She had never done anything like that before so how were they to know she’d do it?! I honestly wish I could rewind time and change something, ANYTHING to prevent this from happening. Alas, I am a mere human and cannot rewind time.
Nikki was going in excess of 100 MPH but if the damn median had done what it was designed to do, which is prevent vehicles from crossing to the other side, Nikki may still be here today. I have to wonder why is it that the Porsche managed to cross the median? Was it faulty or was the Porsche airbourne?
Either way, Nikki’s death is tragic, no matter what she did or didn’t do. She was much too young to go but now she is with GOD and someday her family will be with her again.
R.I.P. Nikki-beautiful angel……
December 31st, 2007 at 1:06 pm
Veronica, do not blame the median for crimony sakes. Or the Porsche. Or cigarettes or parental rules or any other damn thing.
Nikki is dead because she was EXTREMELY negligent and immature. Her fault, her fault only.
Had she crossed the median strip and not hit anything and managed to stop, she’d get out of that car with some very wet pants (as someone pointed out here) but also under arrest and in jail for her driving and without a license for a long time to come. Had she killed someone instead of herself, her young adult life would begin in prison for many years to come.
The only blame is with this young lady. Period.
December 31st, 2007 at 5:58 pm
I think it’s disturbing that the people posting on all of these sites can only think to say “young, dumb driver”. Granted, there’s a massive amount of teens killed in accidents that could have been avoided, but it happens to adults too. I myself am an 18 year old girl…but I can’t begin to tell you how much I hate being placed into a category of irresponsible, careless drivers. I have been in accidents with other people driving, accidents that could have been tremendously worse if it weren’t for little obstacles. I know the dangers already, and although I trust my own driving, it is impossible to trust anyone else’s out there. I just wish people would realize that a 40 year old woman can be as reckless as a 16 year old boy. Some people just don’t grow out of making bad choices or using careless judgement. Think about the mistake that she made as something that could happen to ANYONE with the capability to drive a car, and think about it next time you are in a rush to get somewhere. Don’t go out there thinking…”I’m not 18, wouldn’t happen to me…”
Because it can, it can happen at any minute that you are driving. And also please remember that statistics show a large number of accidents happening within a couple miles of where someone’s home is because they get too confident, take of their seatbelts, pay less attention…
Please everyone, be safe. For your family, and for the families of the other people your choices may affect.
r.i.p Nikki. My heart is with her family and friends.
December 31st, 2007 at 7:57 pm
must suck to live such a short life and only be known as as the “porsche girl”.
December 31st, 2007 at 8:06 pm
Young people, old people, middle-aged people all cause wrecks. What news is that? What’s the point? In this case, focusing back on the matter, it was a negligent 18-year old being totally irresponsible and it could have caused multiple deaths.
She probaby thought she was yet another invincible person who could do whatever she pleases without serious consequence. I’ve seen it a hundred times with my students. Three of them have been in serious wrecks in the past five years due to speeding. Why? By their own admission they never considered what could happen. It always happens to someone else.
I feel sorry for the girl. I really do. It was a horrible tragedy and I can only hope she knew little of what was about to happen, although it was pointed out and is in the TC report that she wet her pants. That’s a sign she knew what was happening. So much for invincibility. Sad it had to be such a sudden and frightening realization for her.
I find no excuses for this. But I do wish the best for the family and hope they find peace. Likewise, for the young girl.
January 2nd, 2008 at 7:58 pm
I dun really noe wut to say………I jus saw her story on 20/20 and I decided to open it on the internet………How can someone spread pictures like this on the internet?! How could someone be so cruel!!I noe huever is reading must think Im just one of the people hus writing something to be nice but I saw the pictures and…….All I could do was cry….I was literally going to throw up but not because of the pictures only….Because of the people who could do something which is so not human and take it was fun………I regret writing *throw up because of the pictures* because Nikki is a human just like me but I cant erase it because………I dont noe……..sumthing inside me is telling me not to….I write poems and so Im gonna write a poem for Nikki and I will post it on the internet so Nikki’s family can noe that not all people enjoy those pictures…I didnt noe I wud write all this I thought I wud write sumthing really small…But Im writing how I feel and I realize that I missed to meet a beautiful and caring person and I regret it….I wud love to have contact with Nikki’s family but since no one is gonna read this I dont think I have a chance…….But if they do I want them to noe that even thou I dont feel how are they feeling, I wud help them and make them noe one more thing…..Ir daughter is one of the most beautiful gurl Ive seen………Finally one last thing……..Nikki, wait for me I will meet you up there someday
January 5th, 2008 at 2:55 pm
This should be lesson for all the self indulgent parents who don’t spend enough time discipling their kids. Try using the word “no” more often.
If you want to know the real reason this tragic accident happened – just look in the mirror!
January 8th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
It is sad what happened and her parents do not and should never have been exposed to these. It is a lesson though about driving fast and what can happen. Even to those of us that are well loved and cared for. These pictures have taught me more than words could and therefore I think that they are important. I will never drive over the limit and be as vigilant as possible. I am sorry to the family for their loss, but I think that some good can come from this tragic accident.
January 9th, 2008 at 4:12 pm
Please don’t take this the wrong way…She was taken for a reason. The Lord needed her for something bigger up in Heaven. From what I have read she brightened peoples lives with her smile and joyfulness. I pray for her family, her spirit, and the harassers. I hope that someone if not many people learn from her mistake. RIP Nikki.
January 9th, 2008 at 10:54 pm
May God Bless them!!!
January 12th, 2008 at 9:58 am
WTF? The genocide in Sudan with no global intervention is sad. The ethnic cleansing in Serbia and Kosovo with no global intervention is sad. An eighteen year old girl dead due to her own irresponsible actions? That’s not sad peope. C’mon, she took daddy’s Porsche 911, a car that can be described as a beast on wheels, and decided to go joyriding at 100+ mph. Not to mention she put the driver of the other car she clipped into needless danger. Where’s the good parenting when you need it? And regarding the pictures, well, welcome to age of the internet folks. That beautiful, and sadly, true quote by Stalin comes to mind, “The death of one man is a tragedy. The death of millions is a statistic.” It sure is.
February 9th, 2008 at 2:46 am
this doesn’t happen to enough people.
February 11th, 2008 at 10:43 pm
I’d still hit that!
March 22nd, 2008 at 10:13 pm
As we celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ, as he bled, suffered and subequently died on the cross, the first of his last words found in Luke 23:24 were “Father forgive them, for they know not what they do.” The first, last, and only way to extend forgiveness to others is through the strength of Almighty God. May the Catsouras family find the Lord and His strength to forgive those ( including the media) who did not consider the impact that the release of the photos and media coverage on you. May God bless you exceedingly and abundantly though His grace, mercy, and comfort. My prayers will continue to be with you.
March 29th, 2008 at 9:34 pm
i saw what had happened to your daughter on 20/20. I thought it was so rude and heartless that people sent your family those pictures of your daughter. I want to say that mostly everytime that I talk about your daughter I tell all my friends what had happen. Some of my friends dont know what happened but i tell them. I am so sorry that this world can be so curel and have no heart. I do have one and when i heard about your daughter i cried.
May 1st, 2008 at 5:02 am
Rest in peace and God will take care of you and your family.
May 1st, 2008 at 7:23 am
Omg, this is soo sad what has happened to her!! I watched 20/20 tonight and i seen the story about her and her family. This is sad that they weren’t given any privacy and that alot of people got to see their daughters dead body before they even got a chance to, but then again it would be a parents’ worst nightmare to see their childs dead body. I have taken my father’s car out and gone on joy rides just for the fun of it, but now watching her story it really scares me because i always go during the night time and have come so close to crashing or a real big accident. My father continues to tell me off and says that im rebellious and that i scare him when i do that and i always just shook it off and kept doing it. Now watching Nicole Catsouras’ family grieving, it makes me so sad and i actually cried with my father and now i realise that what i do affects alot of people and i’d hate to put my family through what the Catsouras’ are going through.
I hope that the family wins their lawsuit as the highway patrol should not have leaked the photos under any circumstances.
I actually want to thank Nikki and her family for sharing their story, and i really have now learnt from her mistake and now i wont make the same. My prayers are with the family and also my best wishes!!
R.I.P NICOLE CATSOURAS
May 1st, 2008 at 5:15 pm
Spoilt brat.
May 3rd, 2008 at 12:06 am
To the family of Nikki
I’m so sorry for your lose I just saw your story on 20/20 1/5/2008. I went to google and had a look which is not like me to do and i saw the photo’s of Nikki adn she is a beautiful girl. I am so dissapointed with the fact that people think that your lose was not enough that you have to be reminded of it all the time i feel that it should be set up some how on the web that every body that goes and look at it should get a fine and the people that have placed the photo’s should go to jail for what they have done I am not sure what people are trying to prove but putting the photo’s on the net i think they are sick i hope you get to read this and know that my love goes out to you and your family over the lose of your beautiful daughters death
June 22nd, 2008 at 3:39 am
It’s been quite a while since I left my first response and I am going to wonder whether or not Nikki Catsouras’ car was airbourne or whether it was a faulty median because here in Arizona, there are a number of accidents that were caused by medians that did not do their jobs.
I will admit that Nikki going 100mph was irresponsible but we do not know if the Honda somehow did something that contributed to this accident. I still do not understand how the damage shown in the photos of the Honda was done if Nikki was passing. Wouldn’t the damage be in the front if she was passing it? I don’t know.
Either way these photos are among the most gruesome I have ever laid eyes on and it is a shame that the people responsible haven’t had to pay for their actions in any way. R.I.P. Nikki…. you’re in a better place now.
July 1st, 2008 at 7:29 pm
I too grieve for the loss of your loved one. And there usually isn’t a day that passes in my week that I am not exposed to such violent accidents in some form of my work. Certainly the photographs are used to compile evidence to support the nature and circumstances of the accident, but this is not something to be released to the open public. And somewhere, someone is profiteering of your loss. And that is downright despicable.
July 2nd, 2008 at 1:37 am
Veronica,
A faulty median? And then you question the theory of expert reconstructionists? Then you point the finger at others for being responsible?
I feel for Nikki’s family but c’mon people… let’s all take responsibility for our own actions and leave it at that.
We Americans feel we’re never to blame and love to point the fingers at others for everything. Where is our accountability?
R.I.P. Nikki
July 2nd, 2008 at 8:15 am
Extremely sad, wonder why people try to cash on miseries of others.
July 2nd, 2008 at 1:48 pm
That is sad, people out there are retarded to enjoy stuff like that on the internet, when i seen the broadcast on 20/20 i wanted to kill the retarded wigger rapper that enjoyed that stuff…
July 2nd, 2008 at 5:55 pm
the people who r saying rude things about nikki like shes a spoiled brat and she should know better just 2 let know most teens dont know better and yall should be ashamd 4 saying those kind of things b/c its not like she wantd 2 crash and die it was a simple accident that should nevr be repeatd and 4 those websites who still hav those horrible crash photos up take em down alredy. nikki was a beautiful young girl who doesnt deserve 2 be rippd on like this. and 1 more thing 4 nikki’s family and friends im sorry she must hav been a horrible prson to lose!!
RIP NIKKI!!!! hope ur life was awesome!!
July 11th, 2008 at 8:28 pm
Does anyone know if the CHP got in any trouble for leaking the pics? It’s horrible what he did to this family by doing that.
August 23rd, 2008 at 2:56 pm
What a TRAGEDY…..What a even BIGGER TRAGEDY that people have to be so MEAN…What if this was your Daughter…Your Son…Your Mother…Your Father…Your Sister…Your Brother…WOW… how the H*LL would you feel!! ~Remember People~…KARMA~ is THE energy that is out there and it DOES and WILL come back to nip ya in the A** I think the person and OR people that let these photos out should BE PUNISHED for their involvement in this VERY SAD situation! With That being said….I also think the parents should have had the opportunity to have the option of weather or not these photos went out like they did…just for a learning tool, if anything……for these young people that think they KNOW how to drive in this already crazy world of DRIVERS…The family should have had that choice. NOT the public officials. How dare THEM….They think they can do anything they want …BECAUSE they where a shield.. Is what that boils down to~ What a terrible thing to do to such a lovely young girl and her Family…..You know I have 3 children…2 son’s (24)&(19) and a 16yr old Daughter…I sat them down and we watched the 20/20 news cast about this…and they agreed with me… that if any thing …like I said the parents should of had a choice in this FIRST …Maybe go around to the schools and use this as a learning tool. (I’m sorry if this sounds to morbid, i don’t mean for it to be) To just let these young people know that you ONLY get 1 CHANCE and if they don’t make the right CHOICE…God forbid…This is what CAN AND WILL happen..(NO disrespect towards the family) I could not even imagine as a MOTHER… just what this would have done to me…I’m SOOO sorry for this family’s loss…and to all of the MEAN people (YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE) that have said all the wrong things….. I’m sure that ya’ll have lost someone that you have known and loved…. I sure hope you can live with yourself as you age and get wiser…You better ask for forgiveness. And to the Catsouras family…all you can do is pray for these MEAN people…. you have to know that Nikki is in a much better place..Just think of her as your tiny little angel in your shirt pocket…In your flower Garden..The wind that hit’s your face~ for no apparent reason…You know~ they say that if you look into the moon at night and you are thinking of the person that you lost…You will see their face in the moon….May God hold the Catsouras Family tight in their long journey of grief….. In this SO UNFORGIVING world of people that have forgotten and got off track about the real meaning behind love and honor….. R.I.P ~LITTLE ANGEL GIRL~
September 15th, 2008 at 8:00 am
IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT SHE(NIKKI) DID OR DID NOT DO! WE~ as a SOCIETY should come TOGETHER at a time like this~ US~ as PEOPLE have just FORGOTTEN how to RE-ACT to the NEXT PERSON~ PEOPLE JUST DON’T CARE ABOUT PEOPLE ANY MORE
And THAT IS A VERY VERY SAD THING…..
October 31st, 2008 at 12:38 am
Heartless morons; thats the kind of assholes who like watching these tragic pictures.
December 8th, 2008 at 12:36 am
R.I.P. Nikki
February 17th, 2009 at 10:39 pm
Its all Bush’s fault…….Yes we Can….Yes we Can……the almighty Obama should have been there to save her.
February 18th, 2009 at 2:25 pm
i think its absoulutly crazy that their suing th cHP for 20 million $. what do they need the money for? sadly it ent guna bring back th girl
February 23rd, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Ayoung inexperienced person should not hav been driving such a powerful vehicle. She must have been driving like a maniac and it’s a miracle she didn’t kill anyone else. At least the roads are a bit safer now.
February 26th, 2009 at 7:46 am
Someone asked who said she was drunk. Actually her parents did! On a cbs website the actual 911 calls made by her mother and step-father individually expressed concern that she had taken the Porsche without permission and had been drinking that morning and taking coccaine the night before. Other people called to say they’d seen a Porshe driven at high speed and zigzagging. But why all the fuss? Hundreds of people are killed on our roads each year and all to often it is not their fault. IT WAS HERS.
February 27th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
Nikki, i only met you a handful of times, yr friends miss you.
R.I.P
March 4th, 2009 at 7:25 am
i live in the UK and there’s just been a interview published over here, given by her own mother in which she freely admits that Nikki was a cocaine user, and was driving the Porsche in “an upset state.” I am not in any way saying that this beautiful young girl deserved to die, that is a sick thing to say and people should be ashamed of themselves saying evil things like that. What I WILL say is that she was irresponsible (FACT) selfish (FACT) and stupid (FACT). Sorry people but it is true. She could have caused a much worse accident and could quite possibly have caused deaths of others, including children, due to her own stupidity. As it was she lost her own life in a horrific manner. I have no sympathy for people who drive so recklessly like this and could quite possibly have been under the influence of alcohol or drugs. A car can be a killing machine in the wrong hands and I think her parents should be thankful that she didn’t kill anyone else, because if that had happened then they wouldn’t be taking quite such a moral high ground now. I too think those pictures should never have been leaked. But sadly they were. I have lost my father in a horrible accident and I would be appalled if somebody had taken pictures and then posted them on the Net. But you cannot change what people in todays world do. You cannot control every individual’s actions or thoughts or opinions in the world. All you can do is refuse to stoop to their level and try to move on in a dignified manner. The family have their precious memories of their daughter and they can never be taken away or sullied.
The way they are pursuing the CHP for money is disgraceful and makes them look like money grabbers with no sense of shame. The accident happened, and it was their daughter’s own FAULT. Again, they should be glad she didnt kill anyone else, accept that people in the world today will have negative opinions (especially those who have lost relatives or friends to dangerous driving) and move on.
March 27th, 2009 at 7:59 pm
She was eighteen not 8 and it makes you wonder if she had a brain before the crash
April 27th, 2009 at 11:26 am
For all you who have an (unsolicited) comment about how the Catsouras’ parented their children due solely to the fact this troubled young girl happened to get into an accident with her father’s car, smarten up. There but for the grace of God go I – and people in glass houses…
The California Highway Patrol officer that found the questionable and distrubing need to post ANY of the accident photos is the one with the real problem here. I tend to doubt he would have been so compelled had she not been a young girl driving a Porche. He obviously has a personality disorder. I think the CHP, at the very least, should be held accountable for negligence in allowing someone such as devious as he to even have access to do this. What a demented person – and he was allowed to carry a gun and badge too???
I am not a big fan of making yet another law that deprives people of more and more of our consitutional liberties. However, I DO believe that the change has to be more an administrative/civil one: There SHOULD be a national policy that prohibits any officer/staff of the any police department from disseminating any graphic photos of accident scenes, and the Police SHOULD be held accountable in negligence when any officer violates that policy. And any officer violating that policy should be fired and lose his/her pension. Period. Don’t make it a law, make it a civil consequence.
All that said, this is a family who lost a child and sister. That is the worst pain imaginable. No one has the right to judge (or guess) at how they parented her. She was loved deeply, and her family is not only grieving her tragic loss, they are beset with cruel, sadistic creatures who have derrived some wretched glee out of inflicting more pain upon them by e-mailing the photos.
I pulled up a link to the photos because I did not want to post without knowing what I was referencing. My heart sank when I saw the car; I knew such high impact accidents were not pretty. But, I stopped with the first photo of Nikki. I do not see how anyone could possibly derrive any interest in seeing them – save those professionals who have to because it’s their job.
The only consolation to the family would be to know that their beautiful young daughter did not suffer. Unfortunately, their suffering is now prolonged and mulitplied. As someone said before me, karmic retribution for such hateful acts is very unkind. Do unto others is a motto we should all live by.
My heart-felt thoughts go out to the Catsouras family. Those who have lost a child know your pain. Those who have children struggling with self-destructive and/or addictive behavior know your pain. And anyone who has a child should understand your pain. God bless you all, and may you find some comfort in knowing that most of us out here have compassion for you and wish you better days ahead.
April 28th, 2009 at 12:54 am
Only now via a newspaper have i come across this incident & feels it’s the worst one can do to inflict more horror on to a family, by releasing photos on the net, that is already suffering from the loss of a beautiful kid
April 28th, 2009 at 7:21 pm
i am truely sory for your lots
April 30th, 2009 at 1:37 am
Question to all the bleeding hearts here: Imagine this. Sweet innocent little Nikki wiped out your significant other and your children on the way home from trick-or-treating. Still crying a river for her? Or maybe they’re not dead, but mangled and covered in third degree burns and will spend a lifetime in pain, suffering and rehabilitation with twisted scar-covered faces?
This is what drinking and driving does. In this case it just killed the guilty party. But in too many cases innocent lives are lost as well. Or worse:
http://www.helpjacqui.com/home.htm
Also pretty. Also young. But an inncocent victim of drinking and driving. That is what can happen when people get hit by a drunk driver. They don’t always die quickly like Nikki did. They survive and face a lifetime of suffering like Jacqui does.
It’s sad and tragic that Nikki died…
…but fortunate that she died alone.
Just ask Jacqu Saburido.
April 30th, 2009 at 1:50 pm
Wow.., this is a sad story, but it’s no one’s fault but hers.
as for the pictures, it’s unfortunate they ended up online, but i could see that as a good deterent for people who think they can have a drink and then get in a car. it’s the reality of what happens when people drive drunk.
very sad. im glad no one else died in the midst of her immature actions.
April 30th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
i was in my 4th hour class and my teacher read the story too us.. about it.. thats sad.. how her life ended. it was the same thing that happend to my cousin.. car accident then life ends.. i give my prays n respect too her family.. i dnt like the fact how some of you people can make fun and make a link of her with the pictures. you guys have no respect what so ever. how would you feel if someone did that to you.. and your family.. i know they wouldnt like it. soo why do it too someone elses family..
like i said..
i put my respect to nikki’s family..
r.i.p grl..
never gone but never forgotten..
April 30th, 2009 at 8:54 pm
Stupid girl deserved what she got. While leaking the pictures was a bit excessive, I feel no empathy for the girl and a bit of empathy for the family for having to raise that stupid ungrateful bitch. She was rich and had everything she ever wanted. So many people would do anything to have her position in life. And she goes and does drugs, throws a bitch fit over her car and goes 100mph on a highway, a lethal threat for not only her, but everyone else on the road. The bright side of this story is that the dumb bitch got what she deserved and no one else had to suffer for her idiocy.
May 1st, 2009 at 12:01 am
I just read the Newsweek article. I think it’s sad that so many people don’t look at the entire picture here. You have a teenage girl that has a cocaine problem, that has access to cocaine and had it in her body at the time of death. You have parents that know about this and still let her have the freedom to drive at all (she was driving a week before the crash). You have parents that took away her car keys but left access available to the Porsche car keys (if you don’t want your kid driving the Porsche take the f—ing keys with you to work!!) Where is the blame on the parents???
If I was driving the Honda, I would be taking Nikki’s parent’s to court for more than just auto damages.
And yes… what if she had killed someone, just one person before she crashed… would you feel sorry then?
If she had killed just one person, the Catsouras family wouldn’t have a penny to their name today…. not a dime to take anyone to court. They should back down and look at the way they raised their daughter.
This story made the news, but there are hundreds of stories of young rich kids crashing expensive cars because of drugs, drinking and cell phone use that never make the news. Just yesterday a kid crashed a car while texting from his phone, he crashed and burned inside the car…. I don’t feel sorry at all. Those same people that text, KILL others on the road.
The driver of the HONDA was very close to being killed.
I hope the pictures keep circulating and I hope that one day people will get a clue. Stupid people will raise stupid people.
And what is this crap they took their oldest living daughter out of school to home school her?? Do you really think she’s being home schooled by these parents? How you be home schooled when mommy is out getting a tan at the spa???
May 2nd, 2009 at 8:33 am
Evidently this little girl was what I consider to be a spoiled little rich girl. While I don’t condone what she did (taking dad’s car while on cocaine) I cannot understand why some of you feel that “she deserved this”. This problem doesn’t only happen to the rich, you have middle to lower income families that have to deal with family members doing drugs. This child did not deserve to die. Thank goodness the only life taken was hers, but still, it saddens me that she lost her life.
As for the cop who leaked these photos, shame on him or her too. I hope that this person lost their job. Another reason for the citizens to feel betrayed by those who are supposed to “serve and protect”.
I pray that the Catsouras family are healing from their grief and I have to say “shame on the media for bringing this up again.”
This was a tragedy that nobody should ever have to experience. My heart goes out to all involved and I hope that the driver of the Honda has healed both physically and mentally.
May 2nd, 2009 at 8:50 am
Any death is a tradgdy… I remember 3rd grade.. we had to sit and watch this grusome film about child abduction and what has happened to children who have been butchered.. graphic.. very graphic… I will never forget that film… I am sure Nikki was loved deeply not only by her family but her friends.. her life took a turn for the worst… she made some errors.. like all of us.. her’s were fatal. I don’t agree at all with harrassing the family… that is just not right… but I do agree to showing the photo’s.. why… because look what can happen if you drink and drive… So many things have changed in the world…I am 49.. my folks tell me how it was when they grew up.. more disapline.. teachers could disapline… the morals existed.. so many have faded away.. we hide or are hidden behind a falsity of sexuality.. brutality..greed..etccccc… It is trajic what has happened to Nikki.. and my prayers go out to her family… but let her example show what can happen…
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:27 am
hey thats why you shouldnt go that fast you my lose your head
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:43 am
First my prayers goes to the Catsouras family..The photos are not something for everyone to see..I seen them and not wish I had not..I dont think the family should have to go throught dumb people e-mailing this to them…
RIP Nikki
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:48 am
I am terribly sorry for your lose. The fact that any human being would have the nerve to do what has been done to your family is unbelievable. My prayers are with you and your family, and I hope that in the end justice is done to those who have done this.
God Bless You
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:50 am
We founded this country with the right to free speach … right. If you dont like the way things are ‘leaked’ (just say they put them online no one was waiting for a release of this shit) then you just need to go to another country.
We formed our constitution for a reason and weather or not its used for the wrong reason’s shouldnt be the issue, you ought to just leave if you dont like it.
May 2nd, 2009 at 10:19 am
I am so sorry to see what your daughter went through. What a beautiful family. I can’t even imagine to know what you feel I’ve never seen anything like this before. Your Nikki, what a beautiful young girl, who looks so full of potential. If she can live on in all of our hearts let the world know and try to help spme other young people. Drugs, alcohol, for some reason we don’t have enough help in place to help our young people.
I hope that when we see this terrible imagine it will also serve to remember the beautiful imagine of such a beautiful warm little girl who looks to have grown into a young lady so full of hope and to have it all snatched away from a warm beautiful family. They should not have posted without your knowledge, that is mean. But I see the potential for Nikki to help others throughout the coming years. You can see in her smiling pictures she had a contribution to give to life, not the way it ended, but in a way we were all robbed of. God be with you.
May 2nd, 2009 at 10:26 am
WELL…I LOOKED UP THE PHOTOS…
SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL….WHAT A TRAGEDY…IF ANYONE KNOWS THE PARENTS…TELL THEM..TODAY MY SON TURNS 18….I WALKED HIM OVER TO THE COMPUTER AND TOLD HIM I WANTED TO SHOW HIM SOMETHING….I SHOWED HIM NIKKI’S BEAUTIFUL PICTURE…THEN I SHOWED HIM THE AFTER…WOW…THE LOOK ON HIS FACE WAS PRICELESS…I HOPE THAT PREVENTS HIM AND OTHERS…ABOUT LIFE BEING PRECIOUS…AND NOT TO THROW IT AWAY FOR ONE MOMENT OF THRILL…I KNOW MR AND MRS CATSOURAS…ARE IN PAIN AND UPSET…BUT REALIZE THAT THOSE PICTURES ARE SAVING LIVES…MAYBE EVEN MY OWN CHILD!
May 2nd, 2009 at 11:20 am
Over 100 mph and doing cocaine?
May 2nd, 2009 at 11:23 am
Over 100 mph ? How much cocainewas she snorting?
May 2nd, 2009 at 11:29 am
“Reality Check” at post 145 says it all !
May 2nd, 2009 at 11:37 am
Why are people calling this an accident?
This girl was going over 100 mph on cocaine,and they are calling it an accident?
May 2nd, 2009 at 11:38 am
I know it sounds mean and all but she kind of deserved to be in a crash, maybe not die but at least get hurt. Then she might of learned a lesson not to throw a fit when she donsnt get what she wants because she is spoiled and always gets what she wants when she wants. And ya its not right fo the pictures to be circulated thats wrong and pretty messed up but she should of also not done cocaine especially since she knows what it does to her, how stupid can u be. And im sorry for what happend but its only such a big deal with the news because she was rich. One of my friends was in a crash and was completly crushed by a light pole but it was only in local news and wanst on t.v. and not even front page of the paper and his family got pictures to but u didnt hear about that because they werent rich or in a fancy car and it was worse because one other person died as well.
May 2nd, 2009 at 1:03 pm
I am so sorry about your lost I can ever imagine all the pain you are feeling right now. I know one day God will bring you peace to your family.
I am truly sorry
I will pray for you and for all this malefic people who wants to destroyed your beautiful gorgeous and lovely daughter.
God Bless,
Maria from Mexico.
May 2nd, 2009 at 2:36 pm
Stupid is and stupid does………you want to f**k around and do stupis S**t this is what happens.. think before you do things because your not always lucky…….good thing she didnt kill or hurt someone ealse in her escapade. And i dont agree with the people who are calling her a rich girl??? lol big deal 90% of everyone in this world works for money its the overall goal lol just because shes had money that doesnt give the right to hate on her. RIP
May 2nd, 2009 at 2:36 pm
i read only a few of the comments that were made on this website.
and about 45% of them were rude and so out of line.
how can you sit there and accuse a teenager of being drunk, or speeding when theres about a 1 and 1000 chance you even know what your talking about?
for all of you people that wrote rude things, dont even bother writing anything, nobody wants to hear your bullshyt you have to say. my THOUGHT is that she was not drunk, or speeding, it might have been the other guy, it might have been an accident. and i feel soo bad that she lost her life so early. and i feel for the parents too.
im sorry for them because of all the shyt people put them through.
one of my friends died in a car accident november 3rd 2008. and she was only 14. the mom went to pass a car that was turning and a tractor trailor hit them head on.
it was neither of the drivers fault, it just happened.
so think before you write, because chances are that you cant prove your right.
May 2nd, 2009 at 2:37 pm
I understand their pain about seeing the pictures… They’re absolutely horrid. I accidentally stumbled upon them on the internet for a project, and well, yeah. But, I think they’re a good message for all of the teen and drug abusing drivers to understand. You can’t control the internet, I’m sorry, it’s gonna happen. Just, ignore them. That’s what I’d TRY to do. I hope her family can make it through this tragedy. God bless her soul.
May 2nd, 2009 at 2:37 pm
This is the first time I have heard about this case, and I just looked at those horrible photos that were said to have been leaked by the CHP. I have read a lot of comments putting the blame on Nikki for allegedly drinking or being under the influence of cocaine. OKAY, IF THAT IS TRUE THEN YES, THE ACCIDENT WAS HER FAULT. DOESN’T MEAN SHE DESERVED TO DIE. AND THAT BEING SAID, IF THE POINT OF THIS MESSAGE BOARD WAS ABOUT THE CHP LETTING THOSE PHOTOS LEAKED, THAT IS A TOTALLY DIFFERENT SUBJECT AND THAT BLAME LIES 100% ON THEM!!!! THERE WAS A REASON THOSE PHOTOS OF THEIR DAUGHTER WERE NEVER SHOWED TO HER PARENTS. NO PARENT SHOULD HAVE TO SEE THOSE PHOTOS OF THEIR CHILD!! AND ALTHOUGH MY CURIOSITY BROUGHT ME TO LOOK AT THEM, THE TRUTH IS, THEY SHOULD NOT HAVE EVEN BEEN THERE FOR ME TO LOOK AT! WHOEVER LEAKED THOSE PHOTOS SHOULD BE PUNISHED, NO DOUGHT ABOUT IT. LIKE I SAID, THIS IS THE FIRST I HAVE HEARD OF THIS CASE, AND THIS I CAN COUNT ON 1 HAND HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE POSTED COMMENTS ON A MESSAGE BOARD LIKE THIS IN THE LAST 10 YEARS, BUT JUST THE THOUGHT OF LOOKING AT THAT BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN THAT STATE IS HEARTBREAKING. MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO HER FAMILY.
May 2nd, 2009 at 2:40 pm
ooo and the pictures………..yea they should of been released upon REQUEST………and im sure they wouldnt of been requested……………………….THE PERSON(s) IN THE HONDA LIVED!!!!!!!!!!!WHY THE F**** ARE THEY TAKING PICTURES ANYWAY ITS NOT A CRIME SCENCE SHE DIDNT KILL ANYONE EALSE ONLY HERSELF TAKE PICTURES OF THE CAR FOR INSURANCE REASONS AFTER THE BODY IS REMOVED!!!!!!!! COPS THESE FUCKING DAYS NEED TO GET THE S**** ON POINT… MY GOOD FREINDS DIED 2 WEEKS AGO IN YORKTOWN NY COPS DIDNT NO WHAT TO DO EITHER
May 2nd, 2009 at 2:41 pm
ooo and the pictures………..yea they should of been released upon REQUEST………and im sure they wouldnt of been requested……………………….THE PERSON(s) IN THE HONDA LIVED!!!!!!!!!!!WHY THE F**** ARE THEY TAKING PICTURES ANYWAY ITS NOT A CRIME SCENCE SHE DIDNT KILL ANYONE EALSE ONLY HERSELF TAKE PICTURES OF THE CAR FOR INSURANCE REASONS AFTER THE BODY IS REMOVED!!!!!!!! COPS THESE F****G DAYS NEED TO GET THE S**** ON POINT… MY GOOD FREINDS DIED 2 WEEKS AGO IN YORKTOWN NY COPS DIDNT NO WHAT TO DO EITHER
May 2nd, 2009 at 3:32 pm
ppl that put up does pics make me sick the poor girl is dead let her rest in peace!!!
is been almost 3 years and come on the family of this poor girl is so hurt cuzz of some ppl doing this to them STILL, showing this pics is not cool at all and eather funny…
so who ever read this!!!! IF you did put up or show does pics (YOU BETTER STOP AND ERAZE THEM CUZZ IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS AND HAVE SOME RESPECT GROW TFKUP)
remember “KARMA” is a B****
and I just want to say that im very sorry that NIKKI’S family have been going tru so much!
I hope this bad dream for THEM goes away and AT least IF THIS PPL STOP for them to just have only good memory of NIKKI 4 ever..
and for nikki to rest in peace…
I understand sum of the comment about what about the other driver look a good thing the honda driver is find.
Shes dead! but the thing is she was a young 18 confusse girl ok we all make wrong decisionS! ALL OF US!!!!!
about cocaine or wat ever look we dont kno the story ok first the news is saying the father cought her smoking so he took her car keys away then cocaine and now arcohol so u see we dont know so plezz let stop asuming is not good!
and if you dont care about the girl at lease sum respect for nikkis family they going tru so much!
oh! another thing i want to say cuzz i was reading sum comments…
first of all do you have a kids
i bet u dont and even if you do this is not the right way
i have 2 kids i treat my kids like a prince and princes and i give them everything i spoiled them it dont mean that they gonna do wat they want no sur! spoiled sooooooooo what! i bet u spoiled your kids 2 so shut TFKup! so for that to happen to nikki it hurts cuzz she was a very young girl and no metter what she did! she didn’t deserve that!
but i know that this is life… things can happen and is scary
and NO! this photo shouldn’t be shown to no kids and no young adult they know better is up 2 you parents not a fking pics or video…so come on grow up!
like i said you aint no body to judge anybody but god!
so have a nice day!
BY
B_HAPPY
May 2nd, 2009 at 4:02 pm
Carmen:
Teens need responsible parents to show them what can happen when they act all “teeny” and rebellious. Teens believe they are invincible – I know I did some pretty stupid things too when I was that age. I think it’s good to show teens what happens when you speed, drive recklessly, try street drugs, drink too much… Teens can die from so many different thigs: car wrecks, x-treme sports accidents, addiction, overdose, gang violence, drinking and driving… it’s a dangerous world and those inexperienced youngsters are jumping in with both feet, hormones ablaze still feeling the warmth and protection of their parent’s care. But parents cannot be there all the time – and parents cannot intervene when it’s too late. Once Nikki roared away in the Porsche her fate was in her own hands – her parents were powerless at that point. It’s really too bad she didn’t just get a broken arm and learn from her mistake. That’s what we need to tell the kids. Sometimes you DON’T just get a bump bruise or broken arm. Sometimes you DIE. Sometimes someone has to come with a bag and clean your BRAINS off the pavement. Yeah, it’s GRUESOME. It’s GORY. It’s SHOCKING. But it’s REAL and it’s sad and it’s tragic and it happens every day in North America. I still think the Catsouras family should consider that fact that these horrible pictures, although damaging to them, might be saving a few young people’s lives. If kids think about those images before getting into a car when intoxicated (or just REALLY MAD) they might stop – just long enough to think about the repercussions.
People die. It’s sad. It’s tragic. But the real *tradedy* is if we don’t at least TRY to learn from others mistakes and try and prevent teens from making flippant decisions about potentially life altering or life ENDING things.
Let’s face it. Vehicles (any kind) and teens are a bad mix. Add alcohol, drugs, agression or carelessness and it’s a disaster waiting to happen.
Some may disagree about showing kids really graphic photos. I have mixed feelings about to tell you the truth. But I am sure about one thing: doing NOTHING is the worst thing of ALL.
Peace
May 2nd, 2009 at 4:26 pm
wow… i cant believe those people such things like that to Catsouras’ family…
my prayers go out to catsouras’ family…
May 2nd, 2009 at 5:11 pm
This is a sad tragedy…it doesn’t matter the reason that it happened…no parent deserves to have pictures of their kids posted all over the net. There are sickos out there who based on just seeing these pictures will contact and taunt this family! The most disgusting thing about the whole affair (aside from those who post here presuming to know ‘what really happened’) is that they lost their case against the police dept. I feel like even if the police did nothing ‘illegal’..those who leaked the pictures should have been fired immediately..they don’t they take an oath to protect and serve? who were they protecting then? who were they serving? it is ethically wrong, and they should have been at the least suspended without pay. I hope the ‘court of public opinion’ brings its weight to bare on this police department to either do something about those policemen or to change it’s policy. No parent, regardless of the circumstances, or their role in it should ever have to see their child like that..and if you disagree or think that they got what they deserve..it is only because you don’t have any children. No parent should ever have to see their baby like that!!
May 2nd, 2009 at 7:06 pm
first and foremost…my prayers to the family. may you rest knowing that your daughter is in the hands of God. furthermore…it will take time, but your pain will subside. just pray!!!! and remember life is a gift no matter how long or short. Peace and Blessings!!!!
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:02 pm
I have 2 daughters who are my world, my heart goes out the family of Nikki and her friends.What a tragedy of a bad situation turning out to be so devastating…..you never know what will happen one day after another but if I can say one comment to the Catsouras family is that unfortunately this happened but god has a plan and I am thinking Nikkis death will be used to save thousands of other young drivers and she will have a major impact in all our lives.
May 2nd, 2009 at 10:18 pm
How sad..I feel horrible for that family (I started crying
May 3rd, 2009 at 2:16 pm
WHAT IN THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?! THIS IS NOT ABOUT WHY IT HAPPENED! IT’S ABOUT THAT IT DID HAPPEN AND REGARDLESS OF WHY… IT’S SAD, VERY SAD! TO THOSE 2 CHP OFFICERS…. THEY SHOULD DEFINATELY BE FIRED!!! IF THEY NEEDED TO USE THE PHOTOS TO SHOW WHAT CAN HAPPEN AT HIGH SPEEDS, THEY SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN PERMISSION FROM HER PARENTS!!! NOT SPREAD THEM ALL OVER THE INTERNET!!! AND THIS IS THE “RESPECTABLE POLICE OFFICERS THAT WE HAVE TO DEAL WITH?! GOD FORBID!!!
AND THEN… SICKOS LIKE THIS TAKE OVER AND RUN THESE PHOTOS ALL OVER AGAIN!!!
May 3rd, 2009 at 2:19 pm
AND ANOTHER THING… CAN YOU IMAGINE THE HORROR THAT HER SISTERS HAVE TO ENDURE IF THEY SHOULD EVER (GOD FORBID) SEE THESE PHOTOS?!
May 4th, 2009 at 9:40 am
When I read about the cops taking those pictures of her lifeless body, and posting them up all over the internet, I was horified. I think those cops deserve to get there arms and legs broken with a baseball bat, as well as the person who sent the email to the father.
My prayers go out to the family of Nikki.
May 5th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
The cops posted the pictures because they knew people would be interested in seeing such extremely shocking images. And you people proved the cops right! The fact that all of you JUDGING the officers (who are indeed guilty) is laughable since MOST of you looked at the pictures YOURSELVES, which is what created the DEMAND for such images in the first place!!! See the IRONY here yet? Or is this concept over your heads?
Cheers,
Irony Man
May 5th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
But I do agree that contacting family with anything other than condolences is, as you all have said, sick and depraved. And that the officers had no business distributing these photos even if their jobs called for taking them.
May 6th, 2009 at 9:47 am
The aftermath looks horrific, but I assure you all, she did not feel a thing. The impact blew her head apart. What was once her booze soaked brain was instantly shattered into hudreds of pieces and splattered all over the concrete. Before the crash, which was her fault, she could have been any number of things, put any label you want on her, now she is only a bag of bones, what a tragedy. She knows only one thing now, it is better to be alive. The only accurate descriptions of these photos is, pathetic and pitiful. This is plain and simple suicide, not an accident, not something that happened to her, something she did to herself. Just another non hacker who did not pack the gear to serve in society as a fellow human.
What kind of parent allows their underage emotionally unstable daughter to drink all day?
May 6th, 2009 at 11:59 am
I think we all have family and non of us would like thid to happen to our love one, so please take responsability and show respect to the Catsouras family.
i will be praying.
May 6th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Firts sorry to her family, but i think they have responsability , because how is possible she drive a sport car, and now they want make money with this picture ,
May 6th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
Ralph
I could’nt of said it better myself. sorry to her family but booze and fast cars not good.
May 6th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I just read about the horrific details of your continued pain and suffering because of the internet pictures. How terrible. I only googled your family name so I could send this message you will probably never get. I cannot understand how people would actually want to see your daughter’s crash scene. I hope your family finds peace soon.
May 6th, 2009 at 2:00 pm
I am so very sorry for the passing of such a young and beautiful girl… I read on MSNBC NEWS that she survived a brain tumor at a very young age but the radiation therapy may have left her with damage that was said to become evident in time… and that drugs were in her system at the time of the accident …
I was also horrified to learn that someone would ever have the unethical nerve to abuse the sacredness of death. That speaks of a very diseased individual. It is an honor to bear witness to the passing of a human being, and should never be regarded as gruesome or unsightly… and certainly not to be exploited for the selfish egoic satisfaction of another…
I have not seen the pictures and have no need to… I am in control of my mind… those people that did this horrible thing need to admit to themselves that they are clinically insane… to disgrace the honor of anothers passing is insanity… if it was done to them, what would they feel about it… likely not too much because they are crazy.
May 6th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
I am so very sorry for the passing of such a young and beautiful girl… I read on MSNBC NEWS that she survived a brain tumor at a very young age but the radiation therapy may have left her with damage that was said to become evident in time… and that drugs were in her system at the time of the accident …
I was also horrified to learn that someone would ever have the unethical nerve to abuse the sacredness of death. That speaks of a very diseased individual. It is an honor to bear witness to the passing of a human being, and should never be regarded as gruesome or unsightly… and certainly not to be exploited for the selfish egoic satisfaction of another…
I have not seen the pictures and have no need to… I am in control of my mind… those people that did this horrible thing need to admit to themselves that they are clinically insane… to disgrace the honor of anothers passing is insanity… if it was done to them, what would they feel about it… likely not too much because they are crazy. Cops with guns… and insanity… it is not the internet that is perverted… it is the people who choose to abuse it and others on it… She deserved better from everyone and unfortunately her death is to teach us all a lesson… I wholeheartedly choose not to miss that message – her life and death means something to me even if I have not met her.
May 6th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
First of all, I had not heard word one of Nikki Catsouras and her fatal accident that happened two years ago so while pervaying the news section on msn I happened to find the story about the photos. Sure my curiousity got the better of me, as it does everyone.
Anyway, what I have read and the comments left have been…how can I put it, harsh, loving, hateful, considerate and the descriptions go on and on.
Why I find most fascinating is that not one comment has mentioned the fact of her tumor that was benign yet she had to have radical radiation treatments on when she was very young and the fact that the doctors had told her parents that it could affect her judgement as she grew older. Not ONE word of this is mentioned in these hateful, rude and down right ignorant comments. All they focus on is the cocaine she had the NIGHT before the accident and her driving. Regardless on whether the autopsy still showed cocaine in her system the traces were minimal people so it wasn’t like she snorted and minutes later decided to go driving. That’s not what happened at all. READ what the family is saying. Her parents had lunch with her that afternoon, everything seemed fine to them and they also mentioned that Nikki was looking forward to seeing a specialist. It was that she was spoiled & rich and deserved this. God forgive all those people that have left such comments.
Her judgement was poor yes, she made a mistake yes and God was watching out for those who were in the car that she clipped while trying to pass. Unfortunately it was Nikki’s time to go. God apparently wanted her with him for whatever reason and yes it was a horrific way to die but nonetheless it happened.
Shame on the negative comments and the people that have left them. As my mother had taught me…’if you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at all’
May God bless The Catsouras family and may God watch over you and comfort you.
May 6th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
Try reading the article on MSN.com…the girl had a brain issue at the age of 8 years old. The dr. also said she would have problems later down the road with making judgement calls and decisions. Well…..the cocaine and obviously taking the keys to her father’s car was in poor judgement. It is an accident…and well….hopefully lives will be saved in the future by the pictures. If any good can come of her pictures, I hope it is that it makes young people think twice about what they are going to do. Whether it be just for a thrill or to be dumb. Everything has a reaction to an action.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family….she truely was a beautiful girl and Im sorry her life was cut so short.
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May 6th, 2009 at 7:12 pm
The loser cops should be fired.
May 6th, 2009 at 7:44 pm
I also agree with Trisha. All of these negative posts say that she was spoiled, rich, deserved it, and that she had no morals.
It’s not her fault that her parents worked hard to provide a good life for their family. It wasn’t her money, it was her parents. No one ever deserves to die….ever. And lastly, all mothers say “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all”. Well, all of you that posted negative things, you didn’t listen to your mothers just as your blaming Nikki.
It is extremely tragic that she lost her life. Everyone makes mistakes in life, even to the smallest degree. Thankfully, no one else was fatally affected by her mistake. Her family deserves the right the be left alone and not haunted by the death of Nikki. I would be completely mortified if I was her sister and found those pictures.
My heart goes out the her family. I couldn’t imagine losing one of my sisters or my daughter, no matter the circumstances were. Even though she indeed made bad decisions that did take her life, she still deserves to rest in peace. She paid the ultimate price for her mistake.
Again, if you can’t say something nice, just don’t say anything at all.
May 6th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
This is so sad and I feel so bad for this family and their horrible loss of such a precious daughter and sister. I can’t imagine experiencing the cruelty of having her photos sent to my cell phone but as far as the internet is concerned, my advice is this: We live in a world of technology that makes things like this unstoppable, unfortunately, so the best and possibly only way to deal emotionally with the photos being posted online is to know they are there and not ever look at them, don’t go to the links, ever. Ignore them. They are an insult and mean-spirited but for the sake of your (the family’s) peace and ability to move on spiritually and emotionally, let it go. You can try to fight the injustice legally and hope they are removed but if they aren’t, accept it and trust in God for your own peace and justice and just do not acknowledge those pictures by ever clicking on any links directing you to them. It just seems like the only possible way to not go insane in your grief. You have enough to go through without trying to grapple with the deliberate meanness and gruesome curiosity of complete strangers. Just know that most people are decent, compassionate people who do care and feel very sad about this loss of such a beautiful young woman. May God bless the Catsouras family and have mercy on them.
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May 6th, 2009 at 11:43 pm
One point not mentioned here at all ….these pictures are serving a critical purpose. Obviously they are shocking and extremely difficult to view but they ‘will save lives’ and that’s an important point.
The one thing that stands out most is the reality that we ARE mere flesh and blood and life “IS” fragile – we are NOT indestructible as sadly evidenced. Having a drivers license, for anyone, is both a privilege AND a responsibility and a car can become an extremely dangerous weapon when misused. We are responsible for OUR own safety and the safety of others when we get behind the wheel.
These pictures SHOULD be required viewing for high school students and especially for students leading up to the weeks immediately prior to graduation as it seems to me there are many more teenage car deaths during that timeframe than at other times.
You’d better believe these pictures “WILL” save lives and cause many teenagers AND adults to think twice when getting behind the wheel. We’ve all ‘been there’ and made careless mistakes but we got lucky – that’s the only difference between us and Nikki.
Finally, naturally, anyone with decency, will feel much empathy for the Catsouras family. Although they can’t bring their daughter back – it’s not too late to save others. Their daughter’s death doesn’t have to have been in vain, I strongly believe she has already “saved lives” and will continue to save lives whether we’ve understood that or not.
These pictures express what no parent, teacher, nor driving instructor can ever express. Let’s all drive safetly….please.
May 7th, 2009 at 7:41 pm
My response to some of these amazing comments:
“Again, if you can’t say something nice, just don’t say anything at all.”
- This is about as intelligent as “Children should be seen and not heard”. Sometimes you need to say things that are not nice because sometimes people are TOO STUPID to get the picture if you don’t. Like young kids who think they are invincible. Mommies: if your little darlings were made into road pizza as a result of Nikki Catsouras and her vehicular rampage would you be all quiet and praying for Nikki? NO! You’d be over at the Catsouras house with pitchforks and lawyers and then on Oprah demanding justice.
“God apparently wanted her with him for whatever reason ”
- Bullcrap. This is crap that religious people use to justify a tragic loss and make it less painful. God wanted her to be beautiful, and have success and be happy. SHE stopped that by going from 100 to zero in 0.2 seconds. NOT GOD. STOP BLAMING GOD!
“the girl had a brain issue at the age of 8 years old. ”
- Lots of kids have disabilities and diseases. How does this justify “suicide by car” on a public roadway? Sure she had problems – but adding cocaine to the mix was supposed to help? Adding a powerful stimulant to a damaged brain? The ‘disease defense’ is just another excuse and way of somehow dealing with the complete senselessness of it all.
“God forgive all those people that have left such comments.”
- And God forgive all of the self-righteous GOD WARRIORS who are so consumed by their “faith” and preachy slogans that nobody is allowed to discuss the REALITY of teenage drug abuse and dangerous driving.
“It is an honor to bear witness to the passing of a human being, and should never be regarded as gruesome or unsightly… ”
- There are no words to describe THIS lunacy. She did not “pass quietly in her sleep after a full life and go off to spend eternity with God”. Her head exploded. This *IS* gruesome and it *IS* unsightly and worst of all TOTALLY PREVENTABLE. And by trying to make it “beautiful” you’re running from the terror of it, trying to MINIMIZE it and therefore contributing to its continuation! We need to FEEL the horror of this because that’s what, as human beings, makes us CARE and strive for positive changes! Tragic losses are not beautiful, especially when they are preventable like this one was. The only thing beautiful that MIGHT come of this is if JUST ONE kid sees her poor demise and remembers the shocking images and puts down the keys, or calls a cab, or volunteers to be a designated driver.
Wow. Some of you folks have very… bizare views on life if you ask me!!
Cheers,
Irony Man
May 7th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
I can’t imagine what the family is going through, however trying to get the pictures removed from the internet is not going to bring Nikki back. I don’t think that the family should spend all this time and money trying to get the pictures removed, because it won’t happen. Putting the story out there and telling people not to look, will just make them want to see even more and they are going to. When there is an accident on the road everyone slows down to look, it is in our nature. The story made me want to see the pictures even more and I am a mother of three kids. You can’t stop people from being curious and wanting to see what you don’t normally see. My prayers are with the family and may they find peace knowing their daughter is in a better place!
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May 8th, 2009 at 10:32 am
what a tradgedy,she was beautiful
May 8th, 2009 at 10:36 am
i feel so sorry that he family has to endure more pain and suffering with these photos.they need to be taken off the internet,these officers should be fired,these are the kinds of people protecting us?what a sick sense ,why would you email them to anyone?if they are that cold and unfeeling they need serious evaluations.my heart goes out to the family
May 8th, 2009 at 10:26 pm
Most of what I have to say about the accident or her or her parents responsibility has been said. I would like to take issue with the people demanding that the officers be fired.
I read an article explaining that the “leak” started with one of the responding officers sending the photo’s to another officer to use for a DWI class that he teaches to teenage drivers. Then it was sent to a family member of another officer with a teenage child, just to show the family member what can happen in an instant with a teenager behind the wheel of a car. At that point they had no toxicology reports, no family history, and no idea what events led to the accident. All they knew was that she was 18, going to fast, and now she’s dead. I don’t believe for a moment that their intentions were anything other than moral and upstanding. I also know that the responding officers were scarred for life by having to respond to that horrible scene, and that often the only way they can work through the tragedy is to share the experience and talk about it. I am not a police officer, but I do work very closely with some. First Responders deal with these situations regularly, and as shocked as the public is to see the photo’s, imagine being the first one there, and finding her battered body in that kind of wreckage. The first 3 seconds on scene when they realized what they had come upon were probably the worst seconds of that persons life, and they have to suppress their feelings and emotions while they are expected to deal with it in a calm and professional manner. They didn’t take the pictures out of some twisted perversion, they have to take the photo’s to document the incident and to reconstruct the scene. How would you like to be the person REQUIRED to stand there and take pictures of that incident? At every angle, from every side of the car, in close up and panorama? And to do so without reacting the way every ounce of your humanity tells you that you should be reacting? At the end of the day, you have to reach out to someone to help you deal with it, and describing what you saw is nearly impossible. The next logical step is to show the photo’s to your support network, whether it is other officers, supervisors, the police chaplain, or a close friend or relative. When you walk in the door and your spouse asks “How was your day?” how would you respond? As gruesome as the photo’s are, answering that question is not really possible without sharing the images with someone or there’s no way that someone could be expected to even try to comprehend what you are going through. Having access to the photos also allows the first responder to revisit the scene when they have some time alone, and to finally allow the emotional response to be appropriately expressed, which is essential for dealing with it and avoiding other problems like PTSD. If anyone for a minute thinks these officers meant to inflict harm on the family, you are sorely mistaken, and need to take another look at our men and women in uniform.
Don’t blame people for sharing the photos… our morbid curiosity is part of what makes us human and separates us from all other forms of life. We can all look at these photo’s and our hearts ache for the family… if we didn’t run across a tragedy every once in a while, we would lose that empathetic connection that defines humanity.
As for the idiot’s sending vulgar messages to the family, and tormenting them- they have no sense of humanity. Sue them all.
But don’t blame the officers who spent their day cleaning up the mess on the tollbooth, who had to analyze every minute detail of the accident, and piece together a tragic sequence of events. Their job was to figure out what happened, so that the family could understand the tragedy and have some closure. Now one of them has no job, the other was suspended for 25 days, and the family is suing and people all over the country are calling for the second officer to be fired. Is that what police officers should expect when they go to work each day? And lets also not forget that they too will remember that day and what they witnessed, every day for the rest of their lives and they will forever feel pain for the family and loved ones of Nikki.
Some of the pictures ARE being used in presentations against drunk driving. If you were to google accident photos, you would come up with thousands of similar photos, and videos just like hers. When I was in high school, MADD put together a slide show of crunched cars, damage from accidents, and pictures of mangled people recovering from accidents that we all had to sit through, then hear tragic stories of people who’s family members were killed, or they themselves permanently injured by drunk drivers. They did not show us corpses of course since we were children, but the intent was the same. The only difference is that we now have the internet, and the photos can be disseminated much more broadly and quickly. Hopefully there are more people out there that will learn a lesson by seeing the photo’s than there are people that just want to make rude comments and in the process make idiots out of themselves. If just one person see’s the photo’s and makes a life changing decision for the better based on them, then I say the photo’s have served a purpose, and Nikki will have a positive impact on life in this world, and that should be her legacy.
May 11th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
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May 12th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
A very sad story
May 15th, 2009 at 5:58 pm
You know it is very sad if this is the only thing that people want to read about. A young girls tragic death. Our young people today have issues they are dealing with and we are not sensitive about it. We need to let these incidents that happen make us more aware of the fact that they are crying for help. Let this young girls family have closure, let us have some compassion. WOULD YOU LIKE SOMEONE TO DO THIS TO YOU. Before you respond think about it. Have you lost a loved one, and there was unanswered questions of WHY?
May 15th, 2009 at 6:31 pm
I think the spoiled little cunt got what she deserved taking daddys car
May 15th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
After watching the news I went to see what was it really about and to see how bad the pics where. First of all I saw and google the pics of a beautifull girl, young and full of life. My heart goes out to her love ones. I myself is a fast driver. I just love speeding and after I saw the website with her dimise photos I was struck in awh. How awfull I thing what happen and that the photos where posted online. But that girl may have safe my life and may have save others too. Its hard to realize that something like that can happen to one love one. If there is any upside to this tragic lost just maybe she can save others life like mine. From now on I will reduce my speed and I call this my Nikki life awareness movement. To her family and friends i say may God be with you and today a sweet girl like that is under his wings. I felt your pain and that pain I hope will save my life and others. I pray that for years to come she will be a positive force on others even if we did not know of her before.
May 15th, 2009 at 7:22 pm
To the family I say Nikki lives with us all on the net. It is not right what they done but your dauther still lives and she will continue to live and many young folks will click to be save by her. The next time anyone that get behind the wheel your daugther will people lifes for years to come. You have a beautiful family may God continue to comfort you and shower you guys with blessing. The lost is great but the silver lining is just a little something to hold on to and make one step forward.
May 16th, 2009 at 2:49 am
to the parents im sorry about your daughter she was a beautiful girl
May 16th, 2009 at 2:14 pm
im very sorry to hear your daughter! she looks so horrible from what the car did to her! i feel so sad when i look at the picture because i think of the parents and how they feel that it was their daughter that that happened to ! this message is to the parents of nikki catsouras. i hope your family can find peace soon. i am very sorry about your loss of your very beautiful daughter! i wish and prey the best for you!
May 16th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
The Porsche Carrera isn’t $150,000.
May 17th, 2009 at 1:33 am
That is discusting. i am so terribly sorry for your family. you should not have to go through this.
she really was a beautiful girl.
May 22nd, 2009 at 4:32 pm
I feel really sorry for the family because they lost a really pretty girl who didnt belong taking her dads car. If i were in their shoes, i would never be able to forget what happened.
May 24th, 2009 at 2:48 am
Hrmn. I wonder if she wet her pants before or after the impact. That 2 seconds between losing control of the vehicle and seeing that concrete rushing up at you must have been pretty terrifying.
Oh well. I haven’t exceeded the speed limit since seeing these photos. So at least its doing some good somewhere.
May 25th, 2009 at 5:48 pm
Im sorry to say that I cant feel sympathy for the girl her family yes. She should have never attempted to drive over 100 miles an hour just to pass a car. She could have killed someone else. What if the car she hit had a child in it and she killed the child? Think about that!
May 25th, 2009 at 6:01 pm
FREEDOM OF SPEECH IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR CRUELTY
May 25th, 2009 at 6:22 pm
We should all be asking what can we do to help this family the cops need to be fired and the guy in the Honda needs to drop any law suit on this poor bereaved family sham on you just shame
May 26th, 2009 at 12:35 am
YOU PEOPLE MAY HAVE A RIGHT TO YOUR OWN OPIONS,BUT GOD HAS THE RIGHT TO NIKKI,S SOUL WHICH YOUR NEGATIVE OPIONS DONT MEAN JACK SH,,,,,T. NIKKI RIP BABY……….
May 27th, 2009 at 1:11 pm
I am so sorry what happen to I saw the pictures. Just think God and tell him you are so sorry.For what happin to you I just pray for you all night I for give you & me. When you are prise when I go to church I will pray for you.
May 28th, 2009 at 9:40 am
im sooooo sorry.i cant even imagine the familys pain.i will be honest and say i saw the picures and who ever posted them well the highway people should have more understanding.my school read a artical about her and tried to blank her name out but i wanted to learn more.yes it does show us what bad decissions do but its not worth putting that on the internet.thats just crazy.if i was the family i would fight.not give up because we may sometimes fall short of the glory but justice will come out of it.bless the familys heart and i pray my little heart out for nikki.
RIP Nikki.
May 29th, 2009 at 8:31 am
that is just sick the way they put this shit on the internet! the police are the dam right to blame. i say the family wins and take this off!!!
July 22nd, 2009 at 3:57 pm
Roscopuppy said:
“We should all be asking what can we do to help this family”
That’s a nice sentiment. But I think they just want privacy, respect for the dead daughter and their lives back.
“the cops need to be fired”
Sure, once it can be proven WHO leaked the pictures OUT of the department with e-mail headers. E-mailing the pictures internally probably does not call for dismissal so long as the recepient normally received such photos and had a use for them in the course of their duties.
“and the guy in the Honda needs to drop any law suit on this poor bereaved family sham on you just shame”
Horsecrap. Damages to his vehicle and to his person were a direct result of gross negligence on the part of Nikki Catsouras and probably her parents too (if the lawyer is worth his salt he’ll be sure to drag mommy and daddy into it.)
Besides. They’re rich. Papa Catsouras could probably settle with the guy out of court. It’s not like the family is going to be destitute if they get sued.
C’mon. What did the guy in the Honda do to deserve getting smacked and ran off the road and why is he not entitled to compensation? I bet ya $10 if YOU WERE the Honda driver Mr. Roscopuppy you would be suing like nobody’s business. Let’s get real here.
Cheers,
Irony Man
July 27th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
the little brat was drunk and high on cocaine, something her “parents of the year” note sarcasm — parents conveniently do not mention. fuck that shit, that little spoiled bitch could have just as easily killed me and my 2 year old twins. She had no regard for anyone but HERSELF!!!!!!! She could have ran into anyone of us and that would have been us or OUR loved ones with whats left of our faces splattered all over the car, the concrete and the internet. and then her idiot parents would have lawyered up and get their little spoiled brat daughter off with a slap on the wrist….good riddance i say, one less rich spoiled entitled brat on earth the better. i hope her parents see this post too, and don’t mess up the rest of their spoiled rotten spawn. it does suck those pics are online, that was not necessary.
August 18th, 2009 at 8:49 pm
Nikki made a mistake. Yes she did hurt others in the process but that does not make her a bitch and her family does not deserve what has happened after the crash. Those photos should never have been released (I have seen them) and I hope the Catsouras family wins that lawsuit. My prayers go out to Nikki’s entire family.
September 7th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
THIS CRIME (THE ACCIDENT) HAPPENED IN THE PUBLIC DOMAIN.THEREFORE IT IS PUBLIC.THE OFFICERS ARE PUBLIC EMPLOYEES.THOSE PICTURES ARE PUBLIC PROPERTY.THE PUBLIC SHOULD BE SHOWN THESE PICTURES.STOP CENSORSHIP NOW. IT IS A TRADGEDY THAT A PERSON DIED.NOW TURN A BAD SITUATION INTO A GOOD LEARNING EXPERIENCE. REMEMBER, A PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS. NUFF SAID!
September 8th, 2009 at 1:55 pm
The pictures are reminiscent of photos I use to see in newspapers of the 1950’s. The photojournalists would get pictures of recent traffic accidents, the gorier the better, and then front page them. Even then, I felt that this practice laid an extra weight of tragedy and sorrow on the families. Thankfully, the pactice stopped with with newspapers but is now picked up by the new media (the Internet).
September 8th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
who gives a shit
September 29th, 2009 at 4:53 pm
Who gives a shit? That is so rude. Do you know what happened to this girl? It was awful.
The pictures are scary. Really. I advise not to look at them. The bastards that leaked those on the internet are assholes. That is very freaking mean. They even sent the pictures of her to her family’s Cell Phones a month later or so! How AWFUL!
October 1st, 2009 at 9:02 pm
OMG who fucking cares if you guys would have read the whole article the dumb girl was on cocaine so she deservse what she got give it a break
October 4th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Hey, Louie ur an idiot. Did u make any mistakes when u were 18? This is someones daughter. This family shouldn’t have to alter there whole life over this. They can’t get on the computer or go to school because of idiots putting this kind of garbage online. What if this was ur mother, sister , daughter instead of Nikki would u still be okay with the pics? Nikki’s family should be left with happy memories of there daughter . I hope there is a special place in hell for people like u and the idiots who post these pics. If anyone is interested in trying to get theses pics off of the Internet for good please visit the website: petitionsite/Nikki Catsouras and sign the online petition.
January 21st, 2010 at 6:57 pm
holy shit
January 23rd, 2010 at 4:58 pm
May God be with the family. For all of the rude and disrespectful people out there who thinks it’s funny, please pray now. You never realize how much words and actions hurt after losing a loved one, until it’s yours. Just learn from other people mistakes, but never be happy for a loss because tomorrow is never promised.
February 5th, 2010 at 10:55 pm
It doesn’t matter how well off her family is or how fast she was driving or whether or not she was drunk. The only matter that should be of interest is the fact that those clowns who are hired to protect and serve could and would send out graphic accident photos into the infinity that is the web without even taking the time or having the compassion and respect for the family to ask permission. Once something is out there on the internet, you can pretty much consider it there forever unless legal steps are taken and even then it could be years before it is no longer seen. What unbelievably insensitive clods those CHP dispatchers were and should face serious disciplinary action. I can’t even imagine how it would affect me to come acrossed photos of a child or any loved one in that condition and to know that certain disgusting web sites were posting them for the shock value only. How horrendeous. Anyone who talks about Nikki’s mental condition or immaturity or driving speed, or family wealth don’t get it. That’s not point of this travesty. If you just pay attention to what the story was actually about, you’d know that talking about anything except what those dispatchers did is not speaking to the real story. It’s all speculation and made up crap and assumptions made by small minded people who are not really interested in anything but creating and wallowing in stupid inconsequential controversy. Our media has tried and it looks like they succeeded in making a large segment of America beleive that gossip, slurs, and irrelevant garbage is news. It’s not an excuse for those who would denegrate a dead girl. If they spent as much time looking for the truth as they do breathlessly repeating the latest talking points and sound bites that pass for actual reporting these days, they may even start demanding more professional investigating journalism from the msm. Everyone should have compassion for the family and keep their opinions to themselves. Because unless they have some information the rest of us don’t, all they are doing is repeating ugly, hurtful rumors and assumptions based on nothing. I hope the family gets some closure from the court’s decision even though it won’t bring there dear daughter back. Let’s hope they can get all those photos legally removed from the internet.
March 1st, 2010 at 9:30 pm
to the person who loged in as one less spoiled brait… ur a bitch. no mater the fact if it was one of ur twins and they were on drugs or drinking u would still fill that hurt u would still long for ur baby. so shit down ur throat. r.i.p nikkie
April 5th, 2010 at 3:58 pm
did she got her brains eff’d out. must have been a real good ride hey?
April 5th, 2010 at 5:25 pm
most of you are really stupid, typical idiot bleeding-heart people. i feel sorry for your lots
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May 13th, 2010 at 5:36 am
off with her head!
May 14th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
Quite frankly she did deserve it, she was high on cocaine and drunk too. This is criminal, and she would be locked up if she hadn’t won a Darwin award. Luckily she didn’t kill any innocents, she sure wasn’t one.
May 14th, 2010 at 9:57 pm
is that blood or transmission fluid?
May 30th, 2010 at 7:56 am
Individuals are going to do what they want to do. In the end, they always do.
June 5th, 2010 at 2:40 pm
Horroroso, ¿cómo es posible que se juegue con el dolor de esta familia, que perdió a su hermosa hija en un lamentable accidente. El peor dolor para un padre es perder a uno de sus hijos, uno espera que sean estos los que nos lleven al cementerio y no lo contrario.
June 17th, 2010 at 9:18 pm
Chances are if you’re driving a Porsche, it will be faster than your car and you’ll drive much faster than your skills can handle. too bad she couldn’t have kept the organ donor market going for you old fools!
June 29th, 2010 at 2:22 pm
This is a tragic, horrible tale, and despite the circumstances by which the accident occurred, one must appreciate the fact that we are talking about a young teenager here. She did not deserve to die. Despite how gruesome the death was, lets take that part of the equation away for a minute. Everyone seems much more concerned that she was a beautiful young girl who died in such a vicious, brutal and savage, utterly undeserving manner. What I don’t understand is that regardless of the manner by which this person died, the fact is that someone lost their life here. Despite the reckless driving, gross misconduct and lack of respect for other drivers on the road, I can state with 100% logical certainty that the woman did not deserve to die. Reckless behavior at the age of 18 is not a crime that carries a death sentence as punishment. I think people forget that we were all teenagers like that at some point and we all made very bad mistakes of varying degrees, at some point in our lives. This is not about speed, recklessness or anything else. It is extremely unfortunate that this young woman did not ever get the chance to LEARN from her mistakes, which is ultimately the point that I am trying to make here. Leaking the pictures on the internet however? Completely inexcusable. They are now a property of the worldwide web and realistically Nikki Catsouros will be the posterchild of recklessness for years to come. The parents and sisters are the biggest victims here, my heart really goes out to them. I can’t imagine how much those images of their helpless, lifeless and mangled daughter would burn in their minds forever.
June 29th, 2010 at 2:44 pm
In reference to the comments, that ‘She deserved to die… spoiled rich brat…etc.. etc”
These are only examples of how ultimately cruel and vicious the human temperament is. Some of you really have no compassion at all. How does anyone find it in reasonable to insult someone who is a complete stranger, further someone who died by tragic consequences, and further go on to judge them for it? These statements are absolutely insulting – not just to family and loves ones but to anyone who has a half a brain and can think for themselves.